A look at the BIBLE in Genesis 2:20- 24 about the story of Adam, “And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a help meet for him.
And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh instead thereof; and the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leaves his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh”.
From the above story, we see that Adam sighed a sigh of relief when he saw the woman that GOD had brought to him. In the same way, a man do sigh a sigh of relief whenever he sees a woman that meet his longing for marriage.
In other words, it is a man that searches for a woman to marry. No wonder the BIBLE, in the book of proverbs 18:22 says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD”.
By God’s design, it is a man that makes the choice of a woman to marry, so anything a woman does that removes this choice from a man is dangerous. Yet there are ladies that get involved in such dangerous game of love.
In the first instance, the first of such game is using a spell or love charm (love potion) to control a man. There was an incident that happened some time ago in which I came to realize that there are women who use a spell (juju) or charm on men.
In that incident which was a real life story, there was a man that visited one church for a prayer. After a prayer of deliverance was ministered to him, on returning home, the man met “his wife”.
But the man could not remember or recognize that the woman he met in his house was his wife because he asked her who she was looking for.
The woman laughed and asked him if he could no longer recognize his wife again, a wife he married for the past four years.
The woman asked him if he had forgotten that they were married living together and has two wonderful kids, a boy, and a girl.
The folly aspect of that case which shocked many people was that the man insisted that the woman must leave his house that he didn’t know when he married her.
The truth of the matter was that the woman later confessed to putting a love portion in the drink she served the man the day the man visited her shop to inquire about designing a cake for his wedding.
After the man took that drink, he decided to abandon the lady he was supposed to marry and married her.
Also, the woman confessed that she pays the juju man or native doctor that produced that love charm #50,000 every year to renew the charm. That spell or charm got broken after the man went for deliverance.
The end of that story was that since the woman the man abandoned was still single the man decided to go back to her.
The incident above shows how dangerous it is to use juju or charm to get a man to marry you because every charm has an expiring date.
Secondly, there are women that employ a spell caster to cast a love spell on men. This is a dangerous game of love and like giving putting a love potion on a man’s food or drink, every spell has an expiration date.
If you cast a love spell on a man or engage some spell casters in casting a spell on a man, even though you may succeed in the short run, but in the long run, after the spell may have expired the man will hate you for whom you are and what you have done.
Moreover, the eyes of that man may one day open, or he gets deliverance from your captivity.
When that day comes, the man will surely abandon you. That time, you may surely regret your action of ever casting spell on a man.
The third game of love that women get involved is giving money to a man who wants to marry you to used to come and pay for your bride prize. My lady, you should marry with dignity, so sponsoring your bride prize is not marrying with dignity but that is what some ladies are doing these days.
To sponsor the payment of your bride prize is like paying a man to marry you. A man who wish to marry you, it must cost the man something, so never you sponsor a man to pay your bride prize or dowry. A man who did not use his money to marry you will not value you later.
Finally, one other game of love is packing into a man’s house and living with him without having paid your bride prize. Many ladies are guilty of this and as Kunle Olarewaju of www.coachdexplorer.com put it “co-habitation”.
Some ladies are cohabiting with men that are not their wife. Don’t prove that you are a cheap or free article by forcing yourself on a man.
As said, some ladies are guilty because when they notice that a man is showing marriage interest on them, they pack their belongings to the man’s house.
They start to cook for him and as well as satisfying him $exually, thereby living as a husband and wife without been married.
As a woman, you should avoid the three points mentioned above because they may surely work or speak against you in the future if you do them.
Remember the story of Jacob and Rachael, where Jacob served 14 years to get her, so if a man loves you, he will pay any prize to have you. So never allow a man to marry you without him paying a prize.
Don’t do things now that you will be ashamed of tomorrow or regret tomorrow. Remember it is my prayer and desire to see you marry with dignity. See you in your husband house. Shalom.