Of a truth, what is the utmost heart desire of most ladies is how to get the man of their choice as their husband and settle down in marriage?
While as this is the case, many ladies are suffering heartache and frustrations as a result of their inability to get men to marry them have tried all they could do but to no avail.
Having said that, I wish to inform you that the causes of miseries most people especially ladies are suffering or going through in life are certain mysteries which may be unknown to them and beyond their control.
In other words, the result of such lack of knowledge and understanding of these mysteries causes most people especially ladies to suffer miseries in life.
To this end, it is necessary that we should seek to know and understand and as well deal with these mysteries that are behind or responsible for our miseries or problems.
In this segment, we will start with the mysteries behind the inability of some ladies to get married in life.
I am sorry to say that what I will be unavailing here are spiritual matters that some may not believe or may find it difficult to understand or deal with.
My candid advice, therefore, is that instead of dismissing such issues that you don’t understand with a wave of hands, rather you should seek help from those who understand those things or mysteries.
What I am trying to say is that there are certain powers or forces behind the scene that are responsible for the inability of some ladies to get married.
One of such powers or forces is what Apostle Jones Dada Boateng of Deliverance Outreach Ministry London called Covenant Demands.
By covenant, demands refer to demands that devil and evil forces are making on you based on the promises, vows, and covenants that our parents or ancestors had entered into that are still binding on you.
The reason was that such covenants or vows were entered into for themselves and on behalf of their generations yet on born.
As a lady, you need to make research of your bloodline. For instance, your great grandmother did not marry; your grandmother did not marry.
Also, your mother as well did not marry before she gave birth to you which is obvious that there are ancient promises, vows, agreements or covenants that exist in your bloodline which forbid ladies in that bloodline from getting married.
Unless such vows or covenants are revoked or broken, you’re marrying would be a mirage. In other words, if you fail to break such ancient vows, agreements or covenants, be sure that you may never marry yourself.
Even if you end up marrying, you will surely suffer the consequences of breaking such vows or covenants as your marriage may never last or you suffer in such marriage.(It takes a higher and strong power to break or revoke such vows or covenants)
Covenant demands are partly the reason you see some pretty ladies in some families that men are not looking at for marriage. Such women give birth to children as single mothers out of wedlock as men prefer to enjoy $ex with them but refuse to consider marriage.
In some families exists evil circle operating in their families; for instance, consider if this had been the tradition in your family, your grandmother gave birth to a child in her father’s house before she married.
Also, your mother gave birth to a child in her father’s house before she married and maybe in your family all your elder sisters gave birth to a child each before they married.
Please if such is the case, there is an evil circle operating in your lineage. Since it had come to your own turn, they are waiting for you to complete the cycle.
However, since you become a Christian and vowed not to repeat the cycle, that is the reason they will fight to prevent you from marrying.
That means that since you got born again and vowed not to give your father a child before marriage, all the evil powers or forces in your parent’s bloodline may be making covenant demand on you to complete that cycle, that is why they chase away any man that shows interest in marrying you.
As long as the evil powers are preventing men from coming to you for marriage. You need to get such an evil circle revoked or broken if you expect to marry or you may suffer in your marriage if you succeed to marry or the marriage may never last if such is not broken or revoked.
Still talking about covenant demands as Apostle Jones Dada Boateng of Deliverance Outreach Ministry London called it, if your parents are still alive, you need to go and ask them the places where they went to before they gave birth to you or the vows or covenants they entered into.
For instance, your mother, in search of the fruit of the womb may have visited a shrine, a fetish/native doctor or spiritualists. The tendency is that your mother may have made a promise, vow or covenant that any girl child that is to born will be married to that altar or deity.
Not only your mother but your father may also have gotten many boys and in search of a girl, child visited a spiritualist and made a vow or covenant in an altar that any daughter he will have will not marry.
If you are that daughter, please be informed that you are already married in the spirit realm and may never marry in life unless such vows or covenant are revoked or broken.
As said earlier, this is a spiritual matter and a mystery but this may be the cause of your inability to get a man to marry you. The solution lies in your getting such covenant demands revoked or broken.
End of part one please do keep a date with us as we will continue our discourse next. Please ensure that you read part two of the series before you take any action if what I said in this post applies to you