While, as it is, the desire of some ladies is to get married and settle down with their husbands. Some of such ladies are desperate to get married yet no man is forthcoming for marriage.
As there is no smoke without fire, there are certain things that may hamper or prevent such ladies from getting married. I discussed some of these in the topic “top reasons why some marriages may fail” so I will not go into detail here.
There are ladies, who are beautiful, have nice jobs, nice family backgrounds, etc. Yet no man has ever asked for their hand in marriage. Some ladies and men cluster around them, yet none accepts to marry them.
Some of such ladies may get lots and lots of proposals, yet none will materialize. That is the reason some are termed “good for friendship and sex, but not good for marriage.” We will divide these reasons into two broad categories: namely spiritual reasons and physical reasons.
Spiritual Reasons: Obviously, what some ladies may not know or accept is that certain things that prevent them from getting married are more spiritual than physical.
I want us to realize that the spiritual world is more real than the material or physical world. Top on the list of spiritual problems or reasons that prevent ladies from marrying is the issue of the spirit husband.
If you watch some single ladies undergoing deliverance, you will notice that it was spirit husbands that prevented some of them from getting married.
Personally, I have listened to some ladies being delivered and the spirit of husbands. The spirit husband in them was confessing that they prevented such ladies from getting married because the ladies are married to them and that they will not share the ladies with anybody.
We should realize that some spirit Husbands are more jealous than physical husbands. So, as long as a spirit husband is in your life, you may never get a physical man to marry you. The issue of spirit husbands is discussed in a separate topic.
Another spiritual issue that prevents ladies from getting married is curses or spells operating in ladies’ lives. In reality, some ladies have powerful spells and curses operating in their lives that they will never marry so long as that curse/spell is operating in them.
If you are a lady, and everything seems to be in place, good-looking, nice family background, good job, etc. Yet if no man has ever asked for your hand in marriage, then you may or need to seek for a spiritual solution, there may be spells/curses operating in your life.
Take for instance this lady I know, Christy, as she was called. The lady was 28 years old, and her problem was that men keep using and dumping her. The last incident that made me interested in her case was that she was abandoned on her wedding day.
The man, who proposed to marry her, refused to appear at the church on the marriage day. The wedding was called off when the man failed to show up.
I invited the lady into my office and after probing her past, we came to realize that a curse was operating in her life. It was that spell or curse that prevented her from getting married.
What happened was that while on campus, the said lady was dating a woman’s husband. It happened that one day the woman caught them and when the woman confronted her husband, he slapped her in the presence of that lady.
The woman in tears cursed the lady that she will never get a husband of her own because of what she was doing with her husband. Many years have passed since that incident, yet that curse was strong as ever.
Since she happened to know the woman and where they currently live, I told her that she needed to make peace with that woman, she needed to appeal for her forgiveness to lift that curse.
The said lady agreed, and I invited her and the woman to my office. The woman came first and was seated when the lady walked in. Immediately the woman recognized her, she rose up in anger and started cursing the lady again by reason of what she did many years ago.
After I calmed down the woman, the lady rose up and in tears knelt before the woman, apologizing to her for her actions with her husband. After a while, the woman broke down and started weeping, apologizing to the lady for cursing her in anger.
That was how they reconciled, and the woman forgave the lady and lifted that curse, saying that she will get a husband of her own that year. To cut the story short, the lady while leaving my office ran across an old friend of mine who was on holiday from America and came to visit me.
Do you know that the lady later got married to my friend and that woman played the role of the lady’s mother since her mother was no longer alive? The above story was to show you that certain curses/spells in ladies’ lives could prevent them from getting married.
Things That Could Attract Spell/Curses In A Lady’s Life.
The following could attract spells/curses in a lady’s life:
(1) When a lady deliberately offends an old man/woman, the old man/woman could place a curse/spell upon the lady and the curse will work upon that lady.
(2) A man out of grief and bitterness could place a curse upon a lady. For instance, there was a man who proposed marriage to a girl and the girl accepted. The man trained the lady at the university, but the lady refused to marry the man after graduation from the university.
The said man in anger placed a curse that if he fails to marry the lady, no other man will ever marry that lady. Do you know that the lady only got married by sponsoring the man’s marriage?
In addition, the lady went for deliverance in which the curse was broken by a higher deliverance man of God. This is the end of this part, we shall continue to look at more spiritual causes or problems that prevent ladies from getting married. Shalom!.