This is the second part of our discussion on the series, the top reasons why some marriages may surely fail. I hope you have read part one of this series for a better understanding.
If you have not read part one, please GO HERE to read part one. In this part of the series, we shall be looking at the physical reasons or problems that may cause marriages to fail:
These physical Problems or causes, most of them, are issues Associated With Women. The first of such problems is vag*nal odor: In some couples, making love is hell for the man because the odor that emanates from the woman is terrible and so offensive.
I know a man, according to him; left the bedroom to sleep in the parlor immediately after making love with a lady he proposed to marry. You don’t need a prophet to tell you that marriage with that lady did not hold after that incident.
As a woman, if you happen to experience such an issue, seek a medical solution or advice. Also, ensure that you shower before going to bed. Secondly, any time your husband wants to make love to you, request him to give you a few minutes, rush into the bathroom, take a shower and clean your private part very well and then come back for the show. Don’t allow your marriage to fail because of this problem.
Offensive vaginal discharge: Another women’s issue that could cause a marriage to fail is offensive vaginal discharge. Of a truth, the offensive odor that comes from some women is terrible, especially when they are in their monthly period. Once you are close to some women, you will surely perceive some offensive odor.
In most cases, the odor comes from the discharge from her private part. Women with such issues, their husbands usually abandon them, especially if the man feels he can’t continue to endure such an offensive odor. If you are a woman with such an issue, seek medical attention or advice, or else your partner may abandon you.
The issue of blood: Like the woman in the BIBLE, some women have a constant discharge of blood from their private parts. That is the reason some ladies refuse to accept the hand of any man in marriage.
Ladies who went ahead to marry, end up experiencing marriage failures. The reason is that some men could not accept living with a woman with such a problem.
Lack of home training: Women who fail to understand their role and responsibilities at home soon runs into an issue with their husband. It is unfortunate that some girls don’t do anything at home, and they end up growing up not knowing to do certain things at home before they married.
For that reason, some ladies run into an issue after marriage when it is discovered that she doesn’t know how to cook at all. Of a truth, there are men who don’t stand their wives if their wives don’t know how to cook.
Apart from the physical issue associated with women, there are also issues associated with men. The first such issue is body odor: I discussed body odor while talking about women’s issues.
Some men have terrible, repulsive, and offensive body odor. There are women who may not bear or endure such offensive odor from their husbands, especially as they are expected to submit to the man for lovemaking.
This Problem is serious when couples sleep or share the same bed, while the case may be a little different if they sleep in different beds. That is the reason some women quietly back out of the marriage without revealing the main reason why they are doing so.
Mouth odor: Mouth odor causes marriages to fail, especially if the man involved insists on kissing his wife while making love. As a woman, will you refuse your partner to kiss you, and won’t you make love to your husband? Men with body odor, and sleeping in the same bed with such men are always a big problem, not to talk about making love with such men.
Inability to perform: This accounts for many failures in marriage, as some men are impotent that they can’t sleep with their wives. Women whose husbands have the issue of impotency decide to go outside their matrimonial home for s*xual satisfaction, even with the knowledge of their husband. Those that can’t go outside may end up leaving their husbands quietly.
Practical Solution: Please, if you observe that you have a mouth or body odor, try to seek a solution to it medically and otherwise. For body odor, ensure that you take a bath regularly or as many times as possible. Shave your armpit always, and use deodorant, perfume, etc.
For mouth odor, seek medical attention. Also, form the habit of brushing your teeth as many times as possible using mouthwash. End of the series hopes that you have learned something from the post.
This is the conclusion of the series, I rest my Biro now, and until I come your way again stay focused and committed to your marriage. Don’t allow anything to cause your marriage to fail. Shalom!.