This is the first part of the series “dealing with issues why some marriages may surely fail”. Whenever you look at some marriages and see certain issues that are inherent in such marriages, you don’t need a prophet to tell you that such marriages are at a risk and may surely fail.
These causes of marriage failures could be broadly divided into two spiritual reasons and physical reasons. Physical reasons are man-made, which results from ignorance on the part of the couple concerned, while Spiritual reasons are most of the time far beyond the control of couples.
Spiritual Reasons For Marriage Failures
What some people fail to understand or accept is that there are certain spiritual forces that are fighting our marriages and causing some marriages to crash even before they had any chances of surviving? The following are some of the spiritual reasons why these marriages may surely fail.
Obviously, these spiritual reasons account for more crashes in marriages than physical reasons. We should realize that there are the spiritual worlds and physical world, the spiritual world controls the physical world. Most of the things that happen in this physical world today first took place in the spirit realm, even before they happened physically.
In other words, most of the things that happen in this physical world all have their root in the spiritual world. There are two major spiritual reasons for marriages failures, these two reasons are discussed below:
The presence of Spirit husband or wife: The presence of a spirit husband or wife in the lives of some couples is the first spiritual reason some marriages may surely fail. I will continue to emphasize the issue of the spirit husband or wife because it had derailed and crashed many marriages more than we may think.
It is unfortunate that some people refuse to believe or accept the issue or mystery of the spirit husband or wife. We should realize that our refusal to accept or believe some things would not change the fact concerning that things.
Spirit husband or wife is the main cause of many marriage failures, whether you believe or accept it or not. Have you ever asked yourself the reasons why some marriages could only last for only a few months, some few years before they collapse even though everything seems to look alright on the surface?
We should also realize that what we are ignorant of is definitely above and bigger than us. I will boldly say that the issue of or the mystery of spirit wife or husband is responsible for many crises and crashes of many of these marriages. When a spiritual wife or husband is present in the life of any or both couples, negative things may be happening in their marriage, and they may find it difficult to understand why such things could be happening.
You see when a spirit wife or husband is present in any of the couple; sly or ridiculous things may be happening that they may not understand nor explain. If care is not taken, such marriages may derail and crash. The issue of spirit wife or husband is a spiritual matter, so we should seek a spiritual solution to it.
I wish to boldly point out that many divorces in marriages, many crises; many problems are all caused by the spirit wife or husband, even though some couples may find it difficult to believe. A couple recently complained to me that for the past five years of their marriage that they had no child of their own, despite that they have been confirmed medically okay.
I advised the couple to visit a man of God to carry out what I called a spiritual x-ray or check-up. They accepted my advice and traveled to Warri Nigeria (Christ Mercy Land Warri). According to the man, the wife was possessed by a spirit husband and had four children with the spirit husband already.
After that spirit husband was cast out, the couple started and presently the couple has two children which she started bearing after that deliverance. You see, some bareness, some impotence, and many other medical crises in marriage are caused by the spirit wife or husband.
I advise that you take action to flush out the spirit wife or husband from your marriage before the spirit derails and crashes your marriage. Some Spirit wives or husbands tend to be more jealous than the physical wives or husbands. It said that there is no harm in trying, so it will pay you to try and confirm whether there is a spirit husband or wife in any of you (you and your wife).
You could do so by presenting yourself before a deliverance minister of God, once he lays hands on you, if there is a spirit husband or wife, it will manifest and be cast out.
The Second Spiritual Reason Why Some Marriages May Surely Fail Is Curses Or Spells: Some couples are under a marital generational curse and as long as such curses are operating in the life of the couples, it could cause failure in their marriage.
A generational curse in a family could travel for many generations and unless you make effort to seek solutions to break that generational curse, it could influence or crash your marriage.
Your forefathers could genuinely have offended someone, such as breaking her heart. Such a person could out of bitterness have placed a direct curse on him like “saying that he and generation will never know peace or have a settled marriage”.
If you happen to come from such a family, the crises you may be experiencing in your marriage may be a result of that curse and if you fail to make an effort to break such a curse, it could work on your marriage negatively and may end up crashing it.
In other words, if you notice that there are things happening in your marriage that you fail to understand or explain, seek a spiritual solution before it is too late. There may be some spiritual problems you have to deal with if you don’t want your marriage to crash. End of part one, Shalom!
