Of a truth, the heart desire of most ladies is to get married and settle down. While as it is their heart desire to get married, some of them are indirectly doing some crazy things that prevent them from getting married. As a lady desiring to marry, you should try your best to avoid these things.
Some ladies, instead of looking for young bachelors to marry them, they are busy dating and Relating with married men, trying to snatch them from their wives. Since those men would never marry them, their youthful and marriageable age get wasted in the process.
As a lady, you should avoid too intimate relationships with old and married men or try to snatch a married man from his wife.
Again, you should try and avoid dating or relating intimately with older men for monetary gain: Some ladies, for the sake of monetary gains, are found dating and relating with far older men than them.
Some of these men are in a position to be their father even their grandfather, all for the sake of receiving monetary gains (financial gains). If you are a lady, you will do yourself good if you will avoid such lifestyle if you wish to marry.
This is because since these men are not in a position to marry you, the men will end up using and dumping you like a worthless rag at the end.
At the same time, you will equally lose the opportunity of getting married to younger men and potential husbands.
The next is poor packaging (dressing): Since it is your desire to get married soon, it is required that you package yourself very well especially in your dressing.
Avoid dressing so irresponsible so that you would not be labeled an irresponsible lady if actually wish to get responsible men to marry you. Remember that t this saying is true, “the way you dress is the way you are addressed.”
The reason is that, when a lady is fond of dressing like a prostitute, responsible men and potential husbands will equally mistake her for a prostitute and get scared away about marriage.
You should avoid dresses that make you look like a prostitute in the name of fashion unless you are a prostitute in the real sense.
Try to avoid shabby dressing: In another development, there are ladies mostly among religious cycles; many of them in the name of spirituality are fond of dressing so shabbily that they look far older than their age. Learn to dress well moderately, not too expensive and not too shabbily.
Moreover, no matter who you are or have, you should avoid anything that shows an expression of Pride in your person: Some ladies, either because of their family background or their personal achievements are so proud that they throw respecting other young men to the wind.
In other words, they have no iota of respect for men; these ladies feel on top of the world and so domineering that young men tend to be scared talking marriage with them.
Learn to respect yourself and others so that men will find you suitable for marriage.
Be conscious of Nasty Character: Apart from pride, some ladies have nasty character and such are unapproachable and quarrelsome.
In as much as they are unapproachable because of their character, potential husbands get scared away and will never come close as to say “I want to marry you”.
Be you sure that you don’t possess nasty and scary character because men who come close to you will run away and will never propose marriage to you?
Dubious and false lifestyle again is what you should avoid: Some ladies are living dubious and false lifestyle and their lifestyle is what I call love peddling. Such ladies can switch to another man even while on a date and they live in falsehood all the time.
In fact, they can’t be trusted as there is no element of truth in their mouth. That is the reason why one of such lady I know, who never saw the four walls of the university yet she went about parading herself as a graduate. So be yourself and try to avoid this.
There are many other crazy things. What do you think? Can you help by mentioning more crazy things ladies are doing that turn to hunt them? Hoping to come your way again, do not join them to do crazy things if you are a lady. Shalom.
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