The heart’s desire of every man or woman desiring marriage is to get the man or woman of their choice. In other words, we all have dream husbands or dream wives.
But while so many people fail to locate their dream partner is the result of failure or refusal to deal with certain negative issues in their lives. I call these issues the “BUT” of our life.
Taking the picture of Naaman of the Bible as our reference point as we can see in 2 Kings:5:1 “Now Naaman, captain of the host of the king of Syria, was a great man with his master, and honorable because by him the LORD had given deliverance unto Syria:
He was also a mighty man of valor, but he was a leper.” You see how Naaman got described as” he was a great man” and “honorable” but the “BUT” in his life was “He was a leper”
We all have one “BUT” or the other in our lives, and in some, these “but” are so grievous. Such “But” if allowed or not dealt with, can prevent us from getting what we desired. That calls for us to deal ruthlessly with these issues or the “BUT” in our life.
Bringing this home, many ladies out there in our society, are very beautiful to behold (but beauty is not edible as one musician puts it). They are well to do and many of them came from very good family backgrounds. Yet they are still single as no man is accepting to marry them.
Some are not bothered about marriage, while a greater number of them seem to be bothered as they are getting aged. Many seem not to understand why men are not coming to marry them despite their beauty and other qualities.
Well, my dear, I wish to put it to you that the major reasons may be the “BUT” in your life; men seem not to tolerate them. Some don’t know these while some knew and unless these “but” are dealt with, it may be hard for some to marry.
For some who end up marrying, their marriage never stood the test of time as it gets crashing within the shortest time.
Dealing With “But” In Your Life for a marital breakthrough:
To get rid of “BUT” in our life, we must show evidence of our seriousness to get rid of them. Therefore, the first thing we need to do is to carry out a personal or self-analysis of our person or request, especially a close friend you have, who you can trust to tell you the “BUT” in your life.
In most cases, we pick offense when certain “but” or negatives in our lives are pointed out to us, instead of accepting them in good faith and dealing with these issues, we pick offense.
Secondly, after identifying these issues or the “but”, the next thing is to deal ruthlessly with them. For some, these issues we can deal with them personally, while some other “BUT may require external persons to help us in dealing with them.
Whether you accept it or not, the issue of Spirit Husband is behind many negative issues in the lives of some ladies. Many ladies, out of shame even though they knew they have a spirit husband, but refuse to go for deliverance while others don’t know.
Some, who knew, they are seeking deliverance in certain wrong places that are the reason some fail to get deliverance.
For others, it is their lifestyle as they are so notorious for their lifestyle. One of such ladies was bold to pose topless, exposing her boobs, which she posted on the net.
According to the lady, she said that she was dedicating the nudity to Ahmed Musa, the star of Nigeria’s match with Argentina during the last world cup in Brazil. Irresponsible men enjoy watching such pictures, while responsible men and potential husbands detest seeing such pictures.
In summary, I assure you, that “BUT” in your life, the moment you deal with them, you will see that men will rush and start competing who will be the person that will win your hands in marriage.
Yes, I pray for that for you, and I am looking forward to seeing you get married soon. Until I come your way again, stay committed to dealing ruthlessly with that but in your life. Shalom!