Before we got married, it had been our desire that we are going to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage. However, and in reality, there are couples who are enjoying their marriage to the fullest.
For some other couples, their marriages are an awful failure. Such couples, their enjoyment of exciting marriage, they desired was a mirage.
To this end, some couples are having crises in their marriages which eventually ended their marriages in divorce while some other couples; are still managing to hold on in their marriage. Thus, such couples, they are enduring their marriages instead of enjoying them.
When you look at various marriages, you will see that what is making the difference in each of the marriage is the level of commitment of the couples involved.
It is the commitment of couples to each other and to their marriage that determines the level of the success or failure such a couple would obtain in their marriage.
That is to say, the level to which we enjoy our marriage is determined by the level to which we are committed to our marriage and spouse.
In other words, some marriage failures, we are seeing today is the result of a lack of commitment to their marriage and spouse.
Of a truth, couples who are well committed to each other and their marriage, they will never allow anything to happen to their marriage.
While couples who are not committed to each other and to their marriages, any little and irrelevant matters may crash their marriage.
Before going further, therefore, I wish to ask, “To what extent are you committed to your spouse and to your marriage”? That is to say, “what is the level of your commitment to your marriage and your spouse”?
I wish to assure you that no matter how your marriage had fared in the past as a result of a lack of commitment if couples should decide today to get more committed to each other and to their marriage.
Such couples will see that their marriage will surely have a positive turnaround, a turnaround that both of them will begin to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage.
(Areas) Couples Need To Show More Their Commitment To Their Marriages And To Each Other
One of the areas that couples should show the highest level of commitment in their marriage is with regard to Love. The word “love” is the oil that lubricates every successful marriage.
So, if you want to see your marriage to be successful and exciting, then you should do everything possible to increase the level of love you have for each other.
The truth of the matter is that it takes the highest level of commitment to see your love for each other to grow and blossom while the lack of commitment will cause the love for each other to diminish and die/sour.
The second area couples need to show more their commitment to each other and to your marriage is in the area of satisfying each other $exually.
A look at some failed marriages, you will observe that the issue of unsatisfactory $exual desires or pleasures is at the center. If couples will show more commitment to satisfying the $exual needs/ desires of their spouses, their marriage will be a huge success and last long.
Again, I keep saying it, some men are so selfish when it comes to the issue of $ex in marriages. They are selfish in the sense that often, they are after satisfying their own $exual desires and pleasures without bothering to find out if their spouses are satisfied.
Men should ensure that they show more commitment in ensuring that their spouses are $exually satisfied as well each time they engage in $exual intimacy.
On the other hand, women are advised to show more commitment in their marriage in the area of ensuring that their husband’s $exual needs and desires are adequately taking care of. Women who succeed in doing that, their husbands always love and cherish them.
Thirdly, it is said that the gateway to a man’s heart is through his stomach. However, it is highly unfortunate that some women had abandoned their traditional role of taking good care of the feeding of their family.
The problem with some women is that they don’t even know how to cook and as such they don’t bother if their husbands eat at home or not.
Women are advised to show more commitment to their marriages by taking pains to learn how to prepare good food.
On the other hand, the problem with some men in the house is that they are not bothered about what their family eats at home by not providing enough money for the upkeep of their family.
To this end, couples who wish to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage, they should show more commitment in performing their role at home.
Couples who are well committed to performing their traditional responsibilities at home, they see that their marriages will succeed and blossom.
Moreover, another issue that calls for a more serious commitment on the parts of couples is the issue of intimacy. Some couples don’t have time for each other, yet intimacy is a necessity for any marriage to succeed and blossom.
In other words, couples should create and spend quality time to be together to create intimacy in their marriages.
Some men, in particular, are guilty of denying their wives intimacy with the result that some women are suffering in silence as they are so lonely in their marriages.
Men should, therefore, realize that their wives need their company or intimacy more than anything.
Moreover, couples who wish to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage, they should show more commitment to their marriages by showing respect and as well as cherished their spouses.
A man who respects and cherishes his wife will never raise his hand to beat his wife for any reason while a woman will never open her mouth to abuse her husband if she cherishes and respects him.
The couples who respect and cherish each other are sure to enjoy exciting and successful marriages if such a couple should show more commitment to the respecting and cherishing of each other.
Until I come your way again, stay committed to your marriage and spouses. Shalom!