One of the great tragedies in life is about ladies who desire to get married and settle down, but in actual sense, they are not available for marriage. Some of them get frustrated when at certain ages and men are not coming for them.
Of a truth, most ladies are responsible for their not being married in time or not been married at all. Reasons have been that some of these ladies are desirous of marriage, but they are not available for marriage.
As a lady desirous of getting married, you must show convincing evidence or proof that you are available for marriage. As a lady, unless men see you and are convinced that you are available for marriage, they may never come to you for marriage.
To show that they are ready and available for marriage, ladies must avoid living a promiscuous lifestyle: When young ladies are living a life of what I call “sleep about”, they are ever ready to jump into bed with any man that comes their way and desires $ex.
Such ladies are always used and dumped because no man likes to have them as wives. As a lady, if you are living such kind of lifestyle, you are indirectly telling men and potential husband that you are not available for marriage yet.
If you had lived such a life before, but have changed, you need to show convincing proof to men that you have truly changed by your actions. Again, to show men that you are available for marriage, you should be careful how you relate and always go out with far older married men for monetary gains:
Some ladies, instead of relating and going out with young men of their class. Young men who may end up marrying them, such ladies prefer to go out and relate with sugar daddies, men who are in a position to be their father even their grandfather.
It is obvious, that as long as such ladies are always found moving with these sugar daddies, young men, and potential husbands are seeing them. By their actions, they are clearly telling these young men to stay clear, that they are not available for marriage.
Next, some ladies fail to package themselves correctly as some of them instead of packaging themselves, for young men to see them and marry them, are busy relating to married men, trying to snatch the men from their wives.
When they are doing that, they are indirectly telling the young men and potential husbands that they are not available to them for marriage. Finally, you need to prove to men that you are marriageable, this is because some ladies are not marriageable, and they knew it.
Because this kind of lifestyle they are living now, you wonder if there is no tomorrow. Once men are fully convinced that you are a marriageable material, they will come to you for marriage, otherwise, they may see you as not available for marriage. Shalom!
You are blessed.
