In our society today, some couples entered into a marriage relationship with the desire and high hopes of enjoying successful and exciting marriages.
However, while some are enjoying their marriage to the fullest, others are experiencing crises in their own marriage.
The couples who are enjoying their marriages to the fullest, they know and have applied the principles that make for successful and exciting marriages.
But there are couples whose marriages are in crises, they lack the knowledge as well as are not willing or ready to pay the price of what it take to enjoy sweet and exciting marriages.
Couples whose desire is to build and start enjoying successful and exciting marriage, all that is required of them is knowledge and willingness as well as readiness to apply some principles that make for successful and exciting marriages.
In other words, some couples are not enjoying their marriages simply because they lack the relevant knowledge of the secrets of what it takes to enjoy their marriages while some have the knowledge but they are not willing or ready to pay the prize.
It is said, “knowledge is power”. Where we are today is the function of where the information (knowledge) has placed us.
Also, we fly by knowledge while as those who are not informed; they end up being deformed on certain issues or areas of life such as marriage.
All I am saying is that as you apply these marriage principles, your marriage will surely get transformation for the better even If the current state of your marriage is not good.
As long as you are ready and willing to implement these proven principles I am sharing with you in this post.
In the first instance, couples who wish to build a successful and exciting marriage relationship, they must necessarily build a positive mental image of their spouse and marriage in their subconscious minds.
If you will build in your subconscious mind the mental image of a loving and caring partner, your spouse will not even know when he/she change to become that person and you as well will not know when you change as to relate well with that loving and caring spouse.
In reality, some couples have wrong or negative mindset about their spouse and marriage. Some men call their wives a witch and some women call their husband a monster or a foolish man.
As long as you are having a wrong and negative mindset or negative mental picture of your spouse, you can never enjoy him/her or your marriage.
As long as you are having a wrong mindset of your spouse, it is this wrong and negative mental picture of your spouse that is eventually created.
In other words, you are the one who directly or indirectly created what your spouse has become. As such, you will never enjoy each other or your marriage to the fullest. This is a proven fact.
What I am saying is that if you wish to build a successful and exciting marriage, you need to erase the wrong and negative mental image or picture you have about your husband/wife.
In its place, you should paint or plant in your subconscious mind the mental image of a lovely and caring husband/wife.
After painting the image of a loving and caring husband or wife in your sub-consciousness, you need to change your attitude as to correspond to that positive image you are carrying about your husband/wife.
In other words, you are the one who created what your spouse has become. This is because as long as you build into your subconscious mind the negative mental image of a monster husband or a wife that is a witch.
It is obvious, consciously you will build an attitude to relate with such a monster or a witch which breeds crises.
But if you will consciously create a positive picture of a loving and caring spouse and as well change your attitude to correspond with the positive mental image of a loving and caring spouse.
You will see that your spouse will not even know when he/she change himself or herself to be loving and caring. The logic is, try to be what you expect your spouse to be for you.
Whatever qualities you desire to see in your spouse, paint that mental image or picture of that person in your sub- consciousness and change your attitude and begin to relate to your spouse as if he/she is already that man or woman.
All that I am saying is that, it is your actions and reactions that made your spouse whom he/she is. So, through your actions and reactions, you can as well change him/her to be the man/woman you want him to be.
What I said above is a proven secret of it takes to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage. You need to prove it yourself by your willingness and ready to pay the price to implement or apply it in your marriage?
Of a truth, if you will build the attitude of never to do anything to will offend your spouse and as well refuse to take offense on certain things your spouse does.
In turn, you will see that you will enjoy your spouse and marriage to the fullest as your marriage will never have crises.
The summary of the post is that you should totally avoid having a wrong mental image or picture of your spouse.
You should rather create and plant a positive mental image of your spouse in your subconsciousness and you will see that your marriage will be successful and exciting. Shalom.
