In our society today, some couples are enjoying their marriages to the fullest while some marriages are engulfed with many marital crises.
Some of these marital crises eventually grow to some magnitude that it eventually ends up crashing such marriages.
However, most of these crises are man-made because some couples, the reason for such crises is that they are doing what they ought not to do in their marriages while failing to do what they ought to do or what is expected of them in their marriages.
To this end, we shall be looking at known issues that cause crises in marriages that couples should avoid if they wish to build a crisis-free marriages.
The number one or the first of such issues has to do with bedroom affairs (the issues of $ex in marriage). The issue of $ex has brought many crises in so marriages and had equally crashed as many marriages more than one can remember.
Couples who wish to enjoy their marriages to the fullest, they must ensure that they don’t allow the issue of $ex to bring crises in their marriages.
In other words, they must ensure that they have $exual harmony in their marriages by totally avoid any $ex from bringing them crisis.
To enjoy $exual harmony in their marriages, couples must be ready and willing to satisfy the $exual needs of their spouses at all times. Couples who have $exual in their marriages, both enjoy the $ex act.
Often, $exual disharmony in marriages arises because some men are so selfish when it comes to $ex. They are selfish in the sense that they easily get satisfied and get down even when their wives are still warming up.
As a man, may I ask you this personal question, “when last did your wife scream in ecstasy while having $ex with you? In other words, when last did your wife reach orgasm during $ex with you?
If as a man you are fond of rocking your wife on the bed, causing her to moan in ecstasy during $ex with you, she will never turn your $exual advances any day at any time.
Moreover, if as a woman you never at anytime deny or starve your husband of $ex, in other words, you are ever ready and willing to satisfy your husband $exually, there will never be any crisis in your marriage.
Secondly, apart from the marital crises caused by the issue of $exual disharmony, poor management of family finance also causes a great deal of crises in marriages.
to this end, couples who wish to build crises free marriage must be conscious not to allow crises in their marriages by their handling of financial resources that comes to the family.
Couples who wish to achieve financial harmony in their marriage should strive or work towards financial independence or autonomy of both spouses.
Financial independence or autonomy entails both couples being able to be generating enough finance to use for the family without depending on the other partners.
Another way couples can enjoy financial harmony in their marriages is by ensuring that they don’t live above their means. In other words, couples should never do things financially simply because they saw other couples doing it.
Often, women are known to push their husbands into executing projects simply because they saw other couples do it. in other words, couples must not embark on any projects that are above their means.
The third issue which Couples who wish to build a crisis free marriages should avoid is taking their spouses for granted. In other words, couples who took their spouses for granted, such couples can do or say anything to their spouses without bothering how their spouses feels.
In our marriage relationships, we should realize that it is our actions and reactions that equally cause the actions and reactions of our spouses.
Most crises in marriages start when couples start to take their spouses for granted, not minding the effects of their words and actions on their spouses.
As said, couples who take their spouses for granted, they can do anything in their marriages with reckless abandon without minding the feelings of their spouses.
So if you wish to enjoy your spouse and marriage to the fullest, marriage that is void of crises, then you should never do things anyhow that gives the impression that you are taking your spouse for granted.
Apart from the issue of $ex, poor financial management at home equally bring many crises in marriages. Couples who wish to build a crisis free marriage, they must ensure that there is harmony in the way they utilize finances that comes to their family.
Couples who wish to build a crisis-free marriage, they should avoid the fourth issue which is living a suspicious lifestyle. Do you know that suspicions lifestyles brings about most of the crises in our marriages? Couples, who live a suspicious lifestyle, they do suspects every move of their spouse.
Couples who have a skeleton in their cupboard themselves, they tend to suspect one another. Again, the level you trust your spouse determines the level of love you will show to him/her.
In other words, if you wish to avoid crises in your marriage, then build a strong trust for each other and don’t live a life of suspicion.
That is, couples should not do anything things that could create suspicion in the minds of their spouses. As well, couples should never suspect their spouses unnecessarily.
This is the end of part one of the series. Please keep a date with us as next as we look at part 2 and the concluding part of the series. GO AHEAD TO READ PART TWO HERE. Shalom!
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