In our society today, marriage failures and divorce cases are on the increase. If you observe most of these failed marriages, you will discover that earlier in their marriages, the love affairs between these couples were so romantic that they were like Romeo and Juliet.
However, along the line, some of these couples allowed something to happen to their love for each other in that their love got dried up or got soured.
In view of this, I wish to ask you “are the love affairs between you and your spouse blossoming or drying up/getting soured”?
Couples who wish to have a successful and exciting marriage, they must never allow anything to happen to their love for each other.
In other words, they must ensure that “love” that lubricates every marriage is blossoming in their marriage and never get soured.
In this post, therefore, we shall be looking at ways that couples could build blossoming love in their marriage to enjoy successful and exciting marriages.
However, I wish to say that no matter the current state of your marriage, even if the love for each other has dried up or soured.
I am bold to assure you that you can turn it around and start building a love that is blossoming in your marriage.
Talking about love, I have never seen couples whose love for each other is blossoming that will wish to rush to the court to end such marriages in divorce.
It is only when their love for each other has soured or dried up that they may wish to end their marriages.
In reality, therefore, one of the issues that really cause some couples to succeed or fail in their marriage has to do with their $exual adjustment or maladjustment.
Couples who had harmonious $exual adjustment succeed in their marriages more than those with maladjustment.
In other words, looking at some failed marriages, you will discover that the issue of $ex is at the center of the failure of such marriages as it is had crashed and still crashing many marriages.
To this end, instead of allowing the issue of $ex to crash their marriage, couples should ensure that they do everything possible to enjoy $exual harmony in their marriages.
In other words, couples should ensure that they are ready and willing to satisfy the $exual need of each other at all times without any condition attached. The issue of $ex starvation or denial should never arise in their marriages.
However, it is highly unfortunate that some men, in particular, are selfish when it comes to the issue of $exual matters.
They are selfish in the sense that they easily get themselves satisfied $exually but don’t bother to find out if their wives or partners are equally satisfied.
To this end, I wish to ask you, “as a man, when last did your wife moan in ecstasy during your $exual relationship with her”? That is when last did your wife reach or had an orgasm during $ex with her?
As a man, if you will succeed in ensuring that your wife always reaches orgasm during each $ex action with her, you will observe that she will always be ready for you as she will always relax for you since she will equally enjoy it.
The reason why she declines most of your $exual advances most time is that she has not been enjoying it herself. Blossoming love in marriage is easily achieved when both couples are enjoying their $ex life.
Moreover, as a man, you should learn the habit of verbally appreciating your wife after satisfying you $exually each time.
In addition, you should go the extra mile to show appreciation to her by buying for her gifts, especially things she desires.
On the other hand, as a woman, you can ensure that love in your marriage is blossoming, by your readiness and willingness to satisfy your husband $exually at all times.
It is a proven fact that couples who are always satisfied $exually by their spouses are not tempted to look for $exual satisfaction outside their matrimonial homes.
Moreover, to ensure that their $ex life is harmonious, couples should ensure or do everything possible not to lose their $ex appeal before their partners.
This calls for a concerted effort by both couples to ensure that they maintain themselves as to always stay attracted to each other.
It is unfortunate that some women are mostly guilty of losing their $ex appeal before their husbands.
Some women are so elegant before they got married but soon after allow themselves to become overweight and shapeless thereby losing their sex appeal.
Couples who try to maintain themselves as to continue to be attractive to each other, their love for each other always blossom in their marriage.
Particularly, as a woman, you should ensure that you pay any prize to remain “sweet sixteen” so that your husband will always cherish you at all times.
In other words, as a couple, you should spare your spouse the temptation of extramarital affairs, so it’s important that both of you should continue to look good to each other as to remain attractive to each other.
If both of you do this, I assure you that love in your marriage will continue to blossom, you will never lose your $ex appeal before your spouse but will always be attractive to each other.
Lastly, one other thing that causes love among couples to blossom is the level of intimacy. In other words, love among couples do blossoms better among couples who create quality time to be together more than those who don’t have time for each other.
To this end, couples should create quality time to be together to build intimacy in their marriage.
It is highly unfortunate that what is lacking in most marriages is intimacy as most men and women claim that they had no time or are so busy to spend time with each other to build intimacy.
No Matter how busy you are, marriages can never survive without intimacy. So couples must make out or create time to build intimacy with each other if they actually value their marriages.
For instance, one man once claimed that he has no time for his wife and family, yet during the world cup, he created apple time to go and watch matches. It is only what you don’t value what you don’t create time for that you will not give a priority.
As a man, you should realize that your wife cherishes your company or intimacy more than anything. So do everything possible to ensure that you are not lacking in your intimacy with her, it will make love in your marriage to blossom. Shalom!
