To enjoy sweet and glorious marriage to the fullest is what many couples desire and crave after, yet this had eluded many couples because they are not ready or willing to pay the price to make it happen.
In other words, couples who desire to enjoy their marriages to the fullest, they need to take drastic steps to ensure that the followings are in place in their marriage:
First and foremost is to know and try to fulfill the expectation of your spouse. Once your spouse is happy and fulfilled in your marriage, he or she will in turn try to make you filled as well.
Marriages crumble when one or both couples are not happy and fulfilled in their marriage. To this end, couples need to take time and effort to study the temperament of their spouse.
It is easier to fulfill the expectation of your spouse if you know his or her temperament, his or her likes, and dislikes. However, you need to know your own temperament first before you think about knowing the temperament of your spouse.
Secondly, you should know the strength of your love and trust for each other. Is the strength of your love and trust for each other strong or weak? Take steps and effort to ensure that your love and trust for each other is growing day by day.
Moreover, be conscious or careful not to betray the love and trust your spouse has for you. Most cracks in marriages start when one of the spouses feels betrayed.
One of the ways love and trust is betrayed is when any of the couples get involved in extramarital affairs. In other words, infidelity is the worst betrayal of love and trust.
To this end, couples should do everything to avoid any action that could need to their spouse losing their love and trust in each other. Meaning that couples need to guard jealously the love and trust they have for each other.
Thirdly, another thing couple who wish to enjoy their marriage to the fullest should do is to ensure that they are living up to their responsibilities in marriage.
In reality, there are couples, by leaving their responsibilities at home, which result in one person to be overburdened and most at times this burden over weigh them down.
As a couple, if there is any reason why you may not be able to meet up with your marriage responsibilities, diplomatically let your spouse know.
Fourthly, couples who wish to enjoy sweet and exciting marriage should learn how to manage their conflicts and should not allow conflicts to bring cracks in their marriage.
I wish to point out that enjoyment of sweet and exciting marriage does not entail the absence of quarrels and conflicts. In fact, we should realize that it is in the process of conflict management that proper adjustments are achieved.
In other words, we get adjusted adequately to each other in the process of conflict management. Also, in conflict management, forgiving and over looking at the fault and inadequacies of your spouse makes conflicts to die a natural death.
Of a truth, it is over reaction to our spouse’s inadequacies and faults that leads to breakdown in marriage. Also, poor communication and lack of intimacy are the cause of many conflicts in marriage.
Talking about poor communication in marriage, in wish equally to point out that acting on assumptions of what you heard about your spouse brings about conflicts in the first place.
For instance, there is a man that ended marrying two wives because he sent his wife packing based on certain unconfirmed information he heard about his wife.
It was after he got married to another woman that he confirmed that all the information he based his action were all false and fabricated. He was forced to go and plead with the woman and bring her back as his first wife.
Lastly, couples who wish to enjoy their marriage to the fullest should try to avoid the interference of a third party in their marriage.
Also, they should never borrow what is happening with couples who are already adjusted enjoying their marriage and try to enforce it in their own marriage.
Finally, couples should allow the lubricating force of every marriage, which is love and trust for each other to grow. And when this love and trust for each other grows to a formidable force, it will withstand any obstacle that may come in between.
To your marital success and welcome to enjoyment of sweet and exciting marriage. Remember, your marriage will surely succeed if you stay focused and committed to your marriage.
