In our society today, there are ladies whose ultimate desire is nothing else but to get married. Some are so desperate about it that frustrations are showing all over their countenance because men are not fort coming to seek for their hands in marriage.
The bitter truth is that some ladies are directly and indirectly responsible for their woes while others are still single because they lack what it takes to get men to marry them. When I see some actions of some ladies, I wonder if any men will be willing to marry such ladies.
As I said in one of the posts, a man may wish to marry you because of your beauty or because of your character. But if you lack the two, God has mercy, it will be hard for a man to seek for your hands in marriage.
It is the same for ladies who are beautiful but lack character. Solomon puts it this way in the Bible in Proverbs 11:22 which says “As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion”.
So, ladies who are eager to get married, they must first and foremost ensure that they don’t possess repulsive characters that are repelling men and potential husbands away. Some ladies are wondering why any relationship they enter does not last.
In other words, ladies who are eager to get married, they must fine-tune their character because it is your character that speaks for you in the eyes of men. Some make that mistake of throwing themselves on men, thinking that they will get men to marry them by so doing.
Such ladies do that by packing into a men’s house and start cooking for them and satisfying them $exually. Yes, men may enjoy that from you but that does not make a man be committed to marrying you.
Some men even judge the above action to mean that you are a loose lady. That is why I keep saying that a man who conquers you in bed easily rates you very low and sees you as a cheap article. Are you one?
Besides, ladies who wish and are eager to get married, they must show that they are ready and willing to get married by their action and lifestyles. In other words, you must show evidence of living a responsible lifestyle.
One area you show how responsible you are is by the way you dress. It is said that the way you dress is the way you are addressed. So you should not make that mistake of thinking that by your irresponsible dressing that you will get responsible men to marry you.
Some fail to understand that the way you package yourself determines the type of men that show interest in you. If you are fond of irresponsible dressing, irresponsible men will admire you but responsible men will see you like trash and disgusting.
Ladies who are eager to get married, one thing that should be at the back of their mind should be what to do to attract men in the first place. It is only when you have attracted a man before he can begin to consider you for marriage.
One thing that will surely attract a man is by ensuring that you meet up the yelling and aspirations of men that you have personal contact with. Every man has yelling and aspiration that only the opposite $ex must fill.
Once a man sees that you meet up with that, he will start a relationship with you which may end up in marriage. While if a man found it difficult to relax with you, he will have nothing to do with you either for friendship or for marriage.
Moreover, ladies who are eager to get married must ensure that in addition to not having repulsive character, that there is nothing also repulsive about them. For instance, a few weeks ago, I gave a lift to one lady, once the lady entered the car, because of the odor, my five years old son started to complain who messed in the car.
That odor ceased when the lady came down. What I am saying is that there are ladies with offensive body odor. Such odor may be as a result of the vaginal discharge. So whatever will make a man not to be comfortable to stay with you should be well-taking care of if you wish and eager to get married.
Lastly, ladies who are eager to get married, they must ensure that there is no spiritual problem that may be hampering them from realizing their dream. In order words, they must ensure that no spirit husband is operating in their lives or a curse or spell operating in their lives or families.
Ladies, it is in your interest to go for what I call “spiritual x-ray” to confirm that there is no spiritual problem with you or your family. Some ladies are not married because of generational curses operating in their family.
In conclusion, it is very obvious that before we get what we want, we must necessarily pay the prize. In other words, as a lady, you must be ready and willing to pay the necessarily pay the price to get what you want concerning your marital destiny.
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