In our society, one of the paramount desires of ladies is to get married to men of their heart desire. While this is so, some ladies have done everything necessary to get men to marry them but to no avail.
Because of their inability to get married at a certain age, some ladies had gone so far as to take their own lives. https://www.bellanaija.com/2016/03/31-year-old-woman-commits-suicide-because-all-her-friends-were-getting-married-while-she-remained-single/
I wish to say that as a lady, one the reason why you are still single is that you lack the relevant knowledge of what it takes to get men to desire to marry you or what to do to get the hand of a man to marry you.
In this post, we shall be looking at certain things that are necessary in the life of ladies that could fetch them befitting men for marriage.
As a lady, you must meet the need and taste of a man before he can ask for your hands in marriage. So if you want men to desire to marry you, you must necessarily need to possess the following, especially if you are a Christian and desire to marry a godly man and not the person that could use you as a punching bag.
First and foremost, the number one thing that if you possess it, men will be struggling to be the one to get your hands in marriage is the favor of God.
You need to have a relationship with God before he is committed to releasing His favor upon your life. Look at Luke 1:28 “And the angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou that art highly favored, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women”.
Also see Esther 2:15-17 which says, “Now when the turn of Esther, the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had taken her for his daughter, was come to go in unto the king, she required nothing but what Hegai the king’s chamberlain, the keeper of the women, appointed. And Esther obtained favor in the sight of all them that looked upon her.
And the king loved Esther above all the women, and she obtained grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti.
So, rather than crying and praying for God to give you a husband, pray that God should cloth you with His favor, once you have the favor of God, you will surely be the one to make choice of who to marry.
Moreover, some are projecting their beauty and personality, thinking that their beauty will fetch them, husband. This is not true, there are many beautiful ladies still single while there are ladies who look ugly yet men are struggling to be the one to marry them.
The Bible even said in the book of Proverbs 11:22 that “As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion”. It is the favor of God, not your beauty that gets men to desire to marry you.
The King James Version puts it this way of Proverbs 11:22 “As a ring of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a lovely woman who lacks discretion”.
In addition to God’s favor, you should as well pray that God will make you a virtuous woman. Of a truth, once men confirm that you are a virtuous woman, forget it; they will struggle to be the person to get your hands in marriage.
The books of Proverbs 19:14 said, “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD”. Also Proverbs 31:10 says, “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies”.
Also look at Proverbs 12:4 that says, “A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones”.
It should be noted that it is said that some men died before their time as a result of the attitudes of their wives, they mar contentious women.
The Bible said in the book of Proverbs 21:9 “Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Proverbs 21:19 Better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman
Again Proverbs 25:24 “It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Proverbs 27:15 A continual dripping on a very rainy day And a contentious woman are alike;
All I am trying to point out is that men generally prefer to marry ladies that they prove that is submissive. Some women are tiger and lioness in the house that their husbands run away from their home.
Majority of men that keep late night, spending their nights in nightclubs is because they are afraid to go home. Such men go home when everybody has gone to bed and woke up and leave before anybody is awake.
As a lady desiring to marry, all that is required of you is to convince men that you are humble and will be submissive to the man that ends up to marry you.
TO BE CONTINUED ……….
