The ultimate heart’s desire of most ladies is to marry and get settled with the husbands of their dream. Some ladies actualized their marital desire last year, while some are yet to actualize their desire.
As the years are flying and for you to be alive to see this year is evidence that God has not finished with you. That is to say that this year or soonest, if you will play your own part, God will surely cause you to smile as He will cause you to enjoy a marital breakthrough by actualizing your desire.
To cause your desire to be actualized this year, you definitely need to play your own part. The first stepping stone to actualizing your heart’s desire to marry soonest is to prove to single men that you are ready and available for marriage.
To do this, you may have to break your relationship with the sugar daddies you are relating to. You need to break off from men who are not in a position to marry you unless you are ready and willing to be the second wife of such men.
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This is a bitter truth, but it must be told, that you can’t be relating to married men, trying to break their marriages while you are expecting God to give you your own husband.
Secondly, you need to leave that man’s house: Some ladies have literally packed into a man’s house, cooking for the man and satisfying him $exually. In fact, some are doing with the man what husbands and wives are doing yet the man is not ready or willing to marry them.
Assuming you are currently living with a man, I counsel you that this January 2017, you should sit down with the man and ask him to define his relationship with you.
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If he refuses, then be assured that he is not ready or willing to marry you. What if the man has proposed to marry you for the past two to three years, yet the proposal is only known to you and no one else?
You should know that as a lady your time is passing, so I counsel you to pack out of the man’s house and ensure that the man is committed if he is serious about marrying you.
One of the ways to commit him is that you should compel him to come and see your parents and make his marriage intention known to them. Secondly, if you are a Christian, insist on him following you to see your pastor. I said this because some men are heartless by toiling with the emotion of some ladies.
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They propose marriage to more than one sister within a period. Some time ago, a drama took place in one church at the wedding of one brother. In that story, a brother was to wed one sister, but two other sisters wore wedding gowns and sat with the congregation.
When the officiating minister asked if anybody has anything against that brother being joined with the sister, the other two ladies said yes and came out with their wedding gowns.
The other two ladies claimed that the brother was engaged to them for marriage and that they did not know that he was engaged to another sister. When some witnesses confirmed that it was true, the wedding was called off.
Also, I knew a sister who came to me for counsel because the young man who proposed marriage to her was pestering her for $exual satisfaction. The sister was a virgin and was afraid to lose her virginity to any man other than her husband.
I told the lady to bring the man to my office, and she did, introducing me as her uncle. The day they came to my office, I asked the man if he knew that his proposed wife was still a virgin, and the young man said yes and that he wishes to be the one to break her virginity.
In their presence, I called the manager of one nearby hotel and asked him to reserve one room in that hotel at my expense. I told the man/lady to go to that hotel to have fun, but with a clause that the man must marry the lady after breaking the lady’s virginity.
I further threatened that man saying that if he fails to marry the lady after breaking her virginity, I will make sure that he gets sacked from his place of work. Secondly, I will as well use my resources to ensure that he never, gets married to another lady.
Do you know that the young man was furious and left in anger, and that was the end of their relationship? What I am saying is that you should not allow any man to play with your marital destiny. The man in the above story knew deep down himself that he was not prepared to marry her.
In other words, as long as you are living with a man without being married to him, cooking food for him, and satisfying his $exual desire, the man will never make up his mind to marry you. When he wants to marry, he will accuse you falsely so that he will break the relationship based on the accusation.
Also, you should realize that any man who is not serious or willing to marry you, even though he proposed marriage to you, he will surely run away if he feels that you are trying to get him committed.
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Moreover, the reason some ladies failed to get men to marry them is that they are throwing themselves at men. As long as you are throwing yourself at a man, the man will surely see you as a cheap article desperate to get him to marry you.
In the alternative, it is not for you to search and woo a man to marry you, but rather a man should woo you. All that you should do is package and position yourself for men to easily find you. This is the end of part one, watch out for part two and the concluding part. Shalom!
