In the Year 2019, some ladies celebrated their marital breakthrough as they marched to the altar with the man of their dream. My lady, as marrying in 2019 eluded you, as the year 2019 is fast winding up and as we are about to enter the year 2020. I wish to ask you, “what is your own marital agenda”?
You did not marry this year 2019 because that dream man did not show up or that he showed up but you failed the man’s test. In other words, or you did not meet up with his taste or the qualities the man desired.
In addition to not meet up with his taste or the qualities the man desired, there may be some strong reasons why you will not get any man to marry you this year.
To this end, therefore, in other not to miss out of those who will be marching to the altar in 2020, you should ensure that you tackle the following issues:
If settling down in marriage in 2020 is your desire, you should try or make efforts to make it a reality. First and foremost, you should ask yourself, why am I not married these past years, am I not marriageable? If am marriageable why are men not showing interest in marrying me?
Moreover, you should ask yourself, why am I having marital disappointments from men as the men who showed interest in marrying me suddenly disappeared and never show interest again but instead went ahead and married someone else?
In addition to asking and answering the above questions, you need to take action with the following issues. The first issue is your character: As a lady desiring to settle down in marriage, you should ask yourself if your character is what it should be.
My lady, your character should be your greatest asset if securing a life partner is your desire. What some ladies fail to realize is that the first thing men look for in a lady they desire to marry is her character. Yet some ladies never pay attention to it but are busy projecting and promoting their beauty.
I want you to know one thing, beauty alone may never fetch you a husband that is why some beautiful ladies are still single while some other ladies that may not look beautiful, men are struggling to marry them.
As one musician rightly puts it, “beauty is not edible”. Even the BIBLE equally puts it this way in Proverbs 31:30 “Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.”
So I counsel you, ensure that there is no trait in your character that is repulsive that are repelling men away from seeking for your hands in marriage. All you need to do is to Fine-tune your character and you will surely see men come for your hands in 2020.
After fine-tuning your character, you will observe that you will start drawing the attention of notable men or eligible/potential husbands. One thing you should have at the back of your mind is that no man wants to marry a liability as a wife.
To this end, you need to prove to men that you are an asset and not a liability. Once men prove that you are an asset and not a liability, men will surely rush for you for marriage.
Ladies who prove to men that they are of quality, they are really an asset to men, these are the kind of ladies that men wish to marry while in contrast, some ladies are total liabilities that men are afraid to marry them. Such ladies, the only quality you see in them is their ability to perform in bed.
My lady, I want you to realize that first impression on first date counts and matters a lot. On your first date, be conscious of your actions and demands never behave as if you have never eaten a certain type of food or drank a certain kind of drink.
I said this because I once confronted a young man I demanded to know the reason he dropped the first Lady that he wanted to marry for another lady. The man responded saying that the former lady was demanding money from him to do a Brazilian Hairdo.
That even if he has the money, that he will not spend such kind of money just to do hair. So be conscious of the series of demands you make on the man who shows interest to marry you.
My lady, after all, said and done, a man accepts to marry you, I counsel you to be conscious of the kind of man that is marrying you and the resources available at his disposal for the wedding.
I said this because a lady nearly committed suicide because the wedding gown and other materials the man got for her wedding was later used by another lady instead of her.
What happened was that the man said that he can’t afford the kind of wedding ceremony that the lady was expecting from him. While the man was still trying to raise money to execute the kind of wedding ceremony the lady wants/expecting.
The man met another lady who he feels was better, which he eventually married in a place of the former lady. That lady he eventually married convinced him that she would not like him to spend even the little money he brought out for the wedding as they did a very low keyed wedding.
So my lady, don’t lose out because of a wedding ceremony, because the level of your wedding ceremony does not determine how success or failure your marriage will be.
If you are a single lady and have read this post, I am praying for you, and I will be interested to see you get married in 2020. Moreover, if you have gotten anything from the post, show that you are not selfish by sharing this post with your followers. Shalom!