In part one; we looked at the first three issues which men who desire to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage should have in place in his marriage. We shall continue our discourse with additional issues.
BEFORE continuing, please read part one HERE if you have not read it.
The next or the fourth issue is that as part of your leadership role in your family is your responsibility and ability to take care of your wife and family. You must see it and take responsibility to provide for your wife and family upkeep.
See 1 Timothy 5:8 “But if any provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an infidel”.
Moreover, another Biblical marriage principle you must have at the back of your mind and must be diligent to implement is the principle of having a genuine love for your wife.
This can be seen in Ephesians 5:25 which say, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
See also Ephesians 5:28 which says, “So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself”.
And Ephesians 5:33 says, “Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband
You must so love your wife dearly without reservation, and your wife, in turn, should be convinced that you loved her.
Above all, you must ensure that God is at the center of your marriage. Ensure that there is a regular family prayer together, which you should lead or take charge of. Also, attend worship service together with your family and in addition, try to avoid third-party interference in your marriage.
Furthermore, ensure that you create quality time with your wife to create intimacy. Some men abandon this issue and that is why some couples are strangers to each other in their marriage.
For that reason, some married women are so lonely in their marriage resulting in some of them falling to extramarital affairs with their driver or security man that always keeps them company.
As a man, no matter how busy you are with your business or career, ensure that you create or make out quality time to be with your wife. Of a truth, I wish that you know that your wife values intimacy more than ever, so don’t deny her that if you wish to enjoy success and exciting marriage.
Next, as a husband that desires to enjoy success and exciting marriage, and then ensure that your wife enjoys financial independence. Financial independence is the situation in which both partners have finance they can spend for themselves without interference from the other party.
Some men don’t know the harm they are doing to themselves and their marriage by their wives having to look upon them to provide the money basically on everything. Moreover, you should trust each other that both of you should have access to each other’s accounts.
Finally, another area of your marriage in which you must take responsibility and leadership role is about your $exual life. For the past years, what was your $ex life like in your marriage?
There are men who fail woefully when it comes to satisfying their wives $exually on the bed. As a result, some women grew cold attitude toward $ex and their husbands turn around to complain.
As part of your leadership quality, you should display is the ability to carry your wife along so that the two of you enjoy a better $ex.
I define a better $ex as a $exual relationship in which the two parties, both enjoyed it to the fullest, which reached an orgasm.
The truth of the matter is that some men are so selfish or self-centered when it comes to the issues of $exual relationship with their wives.
As said, some men are so self-centered that they only focus on themselves. All they are after is how to get $exual satisfaction without bothering if their wives get satisfied or not.
May I ask you this personal question, “When last did you rock your wife on the bed that she reached orgasm, screaming in $exual ecstasy?
If you are diligent to see that all that is said above are in place, you will observe that your wife and family will be happy, and when your wife is happy, she will try to make and keep you happy as well.