This is the part two of the series and in part one, we started to look at the above subject matter and we considered three of the basic things that must be in place for a woman who desires to have a successful and exciting marriage.
In this part two therefore, we shall continue our discourse by looking at more basic things that must be in place for a woman who desires to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage.
In addition, any woman who wishes or desires to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage, then the woman should as a matter of necessity learn to take care of the $exual needs of her husband.
That is to say that every married woman should be ready and willing to satisfy the $exual needs of their husbands. Some women don’t know the harm they are doing to themselves and to their marriage by denying their husbands $ex.
If you are fond of denying or starving your husband of $ex, then enjoying a successful and exciting marriage will be a mirage as you will be inviting other women to share your husband with you.
Above all, as a married woman, you should learn how to create a good atmosphere of peace and tranquility in your home: If you ever wish to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage, then you must ensure that your home or family enjoys relative peace and tranquility.
Of a truth, there are women who desire to have a successful and exciting marriage yet by their and actions and reactions, they are scaring their husband away from home.
That is to say that there are a number of men in which one of the reasons they come home late at night is just to avoid quarrelsome attitudes of their wives.
Talking about quarrelsome women, the bible in the book of proverbs 14:1 has this to say “the wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands”.
See also Proverbs 21:9 “Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman”. Also, Proverbs 21:19 says, “Better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and an angry woman.
Apart from running away from home, it is a fact; there are men who had died before their time because of the quarrelsome and other heartbreaking activities of their wives.
It is when there is an atmosphere of peace and tranquility in your home that you will be able to enjoy an exciting marriage.
The book of Proverbs 12:4 said that “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones” In other words, a woman should never open her mouth to abuse her husband.
It is highly unfortunate that there are women, if you see the way they open their mouth to hurl abuses on their husbands, you may be wondering if their husbands are their house boys.
For such women, to enjoy sweet and exciting marriage will never be possible because if their husbands are not happy, they will never be happy themselves. Do you think that a husband you are abusing will be happy with you?
Finally, every married woman should learn to prepare nice food for her family: Some women may think that this point is not necessary, but I wish that you realize that one of the gateways to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
I tell you the truth, a man enjoys meals you prepare and serve him far more than the one prepared and served by the housemaid.
Also, there is a level of intimacy that is created when families eat together a dining table, and that could be the reason your husband will always rush home for dinner is if you know how to prepare delicacies.
I was watching Emmanuel TV last time and saw a man complaining that his wife doesn’t know how to cook, that’s the only time he enjoys a nice meal is that he enters the kitchen to prepare the meal himself.
Do you think that the woman will ever enjoy sweet and exciting marriage when her husband is not happy with her? If you are in a similar situation, what does it take you to attend a part-time or weekend catering school to learn how to prepare delicacies?
However, some may think that this point is not important all because some families have well qualified paid cook who prepares food for the family.
If your family has no qualified paid cooks, you should not leave the cooking of your family’s meals to your house help or to your husband all the time if you wish to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage.
Until I come your way again, stay committed to building your home if it is your desire to enjoy sweet and exciting marriage. Keep doing what will make your husband happy and excited for that is what amplifies your own happiness and excitement in your marriage. Shalom.
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