Recently, one man visited me with his wife. According to the man, the purpose of the visit was to personally thank me in person for restoring an exciting and blissful marriage to his marriage.
While the man was talking, the wife cut in saying, Princevinco, “I never knew that my husband was loving and caring”. In fact, I never knew that marriage could that be exciting and blissful.
It was then that I remembered who the lady was, how she came to me some months earlier with a problem. The lady complained that she was in pain and agony seeing another woman controlling her husband as her husband had unofficially abandoned her.
She had complained that her husband seldom eats at home and as well, that she could not remember the last time her husband had $ex with her as he prefers to be having affairs with one old and ugly woman.
She ended by asking me saying, “princevinco, am I not pretty and $exy enough”? Since I did not know the angle she was coming from, I was mute as I did not say anything. She then went further to show me the picture of the woman she said that was controlling her husband.
Seeing the picture of that woman that she said her husband chooses to be having affairs with, I was provoked in my spirit as I looked at that lady and asked her, madam, is there anything the other woman possessed that is not in her?
I really provoked her as I told her that she was a fool to have allowed an old woman to take over her husband. In fact, I used a vulgar language, telling her that it was shameful that her husband was enjoying $exual relationship with an old woman while she was there.
I asked her whether she thinks that the other woman’s $exual organ was sweeter than her own? I concluded by telling her to fight for her marriage and refuse to allow another woman to take over her husband.
What I said really touched her as she started weeping asking me what she needed to do? Of course, I gave her some ideas of what she needed to do which she implemented to the latter.
Before we go ahead to look at what the lady did that transformed her marriage, moving it from pain and agony to an exciting and blissful marriage, it is necessary to look at what initially pushed her husband outside.
Knowing this is very important because what some are suffering in their marriages is man made. The reason the majority are suffering today in their marriages is the result of their ignorance.
That is to say, some are doing what they ought not to do in their marriage while failing to do what were expected of them in their marriage. You in particular, are you sure that you are not responsible for the crises in your marriage.
Coming back to the issue of the lady in question, the lady confessed that she caused the actions of her husband. It was then that I asked her husband, who narrated what happened, saying that it all started one day that he came back from work and requested for food as he was very hungry.
But it happened that his wife did not prepare any food and in desperation, he phoned that old woman asking her if she had prepared any food which she said yes.
It is worthy to note that the man came to know the old woman because the man had offered her some financial assistance the previous week. The man said that he had nothing in mind at the time of offering her some financial assistance.
According to the man, that faithful day, he phoned and asked the woman the address to her house which she gave him. The man said that he drove to her place and ate some delicious food that day.
The woman, in addition, told the man that she was available and ready for him if he feels like satisfying himself $exually as well. It was the woman’s offer that made him close his eyes and had affairs with her that day.
It happened that from that day on wards, the man said that he resolved never to beg his wife again for $ex. He said this because before then, he used to spend plenty time to beg his wife before she could accept to satisfy him $exually.
So from that day, any day his wife refused to satisfy him, he will drive to the woman’s house and satisfy himself. This was what happened and before long, he preferred to drive to the old woman’s house to have his dinner and as well satisfy himself $exually.
You see, the problem with that couple was exactly the problem in so many marriages. Either of the couple were responsible for the problem in their marriages.
Like the lady in our story, because she was not taking good care of her husband, in feeding him specifically, it created an opportunity for another woman to cash in.
The same applied to $exual satisfaction. Because she was not ready and willing to satisfy her husband $exually, another woman cashed in to offer him alternatives.
So my counsel to you is that you should critically analyze the current situation in your marriage to ensure that you are not responsible for the crises in your marriage.
You should understand that any married woman who cannot satisfy the stomach and as well as his $exual desires may never win the heart of that man. In fact, she has lost the man’s heart.
You should learn from the mistake of that lady, and avoid being responsible for pushing your husband outside to other women and turn round to accuse your husband of infidelity.
We will end the part one here. Please keep a date with us as we continue in part 2 Shalom!.