Whenever there are crises in marriages, couples are quick to point accusing fingers on the man or woman. Some regard their marriage to that man or woman as a mistake.
A lady whose husband has turned to a punching bag recently was shading tears saying, “If I know Mark was like that I won’t have married him”.
So my lady, to avoid shading tears like that lady above, there are certain or major qualities you must consider in accepting the hands of a man in marriage.
These qualities are for ladies who have choices of whom to marry. This is because some ladies have no choice as they do grab any man that comes their way for marriage.
Among other traits, the money a man has and the character of a man ranked most. However, there is a debate as to which of the two ranked first. Some ranked the wealth of a man first while others ranked the character of a man first.
For the fact that the wealth of a man may change while his character may never change, therefore I consider the character of a man as the number one in rank.
The character of a man: This is considered as the number one in rank as it is the utmost desire of ladies to marry men who they know that their characters are good.
That is why you see ladies who refuse men riding very big luxurious cars yet decide to marry men that have no car at all because they considered the character of the men that has no vehicle as been better.
The Second is the wealth (money) of a man: After character, the next utmost desires of ladies are to marry very rich men. I don’t think that there is a lady who will desire to marry a very poor man rather than a rich man.
However, if you marry a man only because he is rich without considering other things, remember that wealth has wings and times do fly away when you least expected it.
If such could happen, your marriage will be heading for crises and marriage break down because the sole reason you married the man is gone.
Men who love and pamper them: Believe me, most ladies prefer to marry men who love and pamper them rather than men who do not pay much attention to them or use them as a punching bag.
If GOD gives you a man who loves and pampers you, you will enjoy your marriage to the fullness.
The Fourth is the background of a man: A man is as good as his background. Some ladies consider the background of a man very important and many prefer to get married to men that come from a well good background.
Do you know that men who come from broken homes, the probability that the man may end up with a broken home as well?
Next is Men who offer them protection: Ladies prefer to marry men who they feel secure rather than a man that they are less secured.
Also, for you to enjoy your marriage to the fullness, you must be assured of adequate security especially from the man (your husband).
Finally, men who are considerate of ladies inadequacies or shortcoming: I know a man; the lady he married did not know how to cook any food at all.
Because the man was considerate, he was the person who was cooking the food they ate the first week of their marriage. The second week, he employed a paid cook who guided his wife on how to prepare certain delicacies.
Within two months, the lady took over in preparing the foods in the house. If the man was not considerate, the marriage would have ended in crises.
The second week, he employed a paid cook who guided his wife on how to prepare certain delicacies. Within two months, the lady took over in preparing the foods in the house. If the man was not considerate, the marriage would have ended in crises.
What other traits do you feel that a lady must consider in accepting the hands of a man in marriage? Please feel free to add them in a comment.
Until I come your way again, I pray that GOD will grant you your heart desire by giving you your dream husband. Don’t fail to read the kind-of-a-lady-i-will-like-to-have-as-a-wife/ Shalom.
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