The year 2016 is half gone, and within the period, many single ladies had secured their dream life partner and marched to the altar, others are still going to march to the altar these remaining months of the year 2016.
As for you, what is your own marital Plan and agenda for the year 2016? In this post, we shall be looking at practical steps ladies who are desirous of marching to the altar soonest should take.
You may not marry this year or will be marrying this year because that dream man did not appear or the man appeared, but you failed the test or did not meet up with his taste or the qualities the man desired.
Yes, there may be some other strong reasons why you will not get a man to marry you this year. Therefore, in other not to miss out of those who will be marching to the altar soonest, tackle the following issues:
If settling down in marriage soonest is your desire, you must make an effort to make it a reality. It is said that every matter assumes a state of rest until a relevant force is applied.
So if you do nothing, nothing may not happen with the issue of your getting married.
In the first instance, you must ask yourself, “why I am not married, am I not marriageable”? If actuality I am marriageable, why are men not showing interest in marrying me?
Moreover, why are men who show interest in me marrying me suddenly disappear and never show interest again but instead went ahead to marry someone else?
In addition to answering these questions, you need to take actions with the following issues;
First is to Tackle the issue of spirit husband: I said it and will continue to emphasize it, one of the issues that restraints or what is preventing many ladies from getting married is spirit husband.
You never can tell, so don’t overrule it or wave it aside as nonsense because this could be the cause why you are not married yet.
This I said this going by the testimony I received recently in my email by a lady who wrote me to testify that after she went for deliverance.
She got married after three months to a man she met at the venue of her deliverance in Abuja. See her testimony in the article, “thank GOD I finally got married at last”.
So I wish to counsel you, why not do what I call spiritual x-ray or check up as to be double assured that you don’t have a spirit husband following you around and preventing men from accepting to marry you.
You do this by subjecting or presenting yourself for deliverance which is the first thing you should do if marching to the altar in 2015 is your utmost desire.
Apart from Spirit husband, there is the issue of spells or generational curses which are holding many ladies from getting married.
Secondly, Fine tune your character: My lady, your character should be your greatest asset if securing a life partner is your desire.
What some ladies fail to realize is that the first thing men look for in a lady they desire to marry is her character. Yet some ladies never pay attention to it but are busy projecting and promoting their beauty.
I want you to know one thing, beauty alone may never fetch you a husband that is why some beautiful ladies are still single while some other ladies that may not look beautiful, men are struggling to marry them.
As one musician rightly puts it, “beauty is not edible”. Even the BIBLE equally puts it this way in Proverbs 31:30 “Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.”
So I counsel you, ensure that there is no trait in your character that is repulsive that are repelling men away from seeking for your hands in marriage.
Thirdly, Prove to men that you are an asset and not a liability. After fine tuning your character and have started drawing notable men and eligible husbands, the next thing is to prove to men that you are an asset, not a liability.
Ladies who are of quality are real assets to men and that is the kind that men wish to marry while as there are ladies who are total liabilities that men are afraid to marry them.
Fourthly, realize that first impression on first date counts and matters a lot. On your first date, be conscious of your actions and demands never behave as if you have never eaten a certain type of food or drank certain kind of drink.
I said this because I once confronted a young man I demanded to know the reason why he dropped the lady he wanted to marry for another lady, the man reported that the former lady was demanding money from him to do a Brazilian Hairdo.
That even if he has the money, that he will not spend such kind of money just to do hair. So be conscious of the series of demands you make on the man who shows interest to marry you.
Finally the kind of wedding ceremony should not be an issue: After all said and done, a man accepts to marry you, I counsel you to be conscious of the kind of man that is marrying you and the resources available to his disposal.
I said this because a lady nearly committed suicide because the wedding gown and other materials the man got for her wedding was later used by another lady instead of her.
What happened was the man said that he can’t afford the kind of wedding ceremony she was expecting from him.
While the man was trying to raise money to execute the kind of wedding ceremony the lady was expecting and insisting on, the man met another lady who he feels was better which he eventually married in the place of the former lady.
So don’t lose out because of a wedding ceremony, because the level of your wedding ceremony does not determine how success or failure your marriage will be.
If you are a single lady and have read this post, I am praying for you and I am interested to see you get married soon.
Moreover, if you have gotten anything from the post, show you are not selfish by sharing this post with your followers.
A lady who I shared her testimony above said she got to know about this website from her friend. Will that be said of you?
Until I come your way again, I counsel you to take the above practical steps if actually, it is your desire to march to the altar soonest. Shalom!
