This is the final part of the series, “My lady, steps to actualize your desire to get married?” I hope that you have read parts one and two of the series for a better understanding?
This post is the concluding part of the series, so you need to have read parts one and two.
You should GO HERE to read part two if you have not. In this final part of the series, we shall continue to look at what the contents of packaging are like, among other things.
We shall look at issues that prevent ladies from actualizing their desire to get married…
Have you ever bought something in the market and after opening it when you got home, you discovered that the content wasn’t as good as the packaging? That is exactly how it is with some ladies.
Some ladies may appear wonderfully packaged, but when you come close to them, you will discover that there are one or two things repulsive about them.
That may be the reason why some ladies have not actualized their desire to get married because men who came close to them in the past ran away without proposing.
Some men may propose marriage, but soon disappear when they discover certain things about the ladies. To get a man to stick to you for marriage, the man must be assured that you are worth his having you as a wife.
So to actualize your desire to get married, you must not play with neatness: I wish to ask, how neat are you inside? I wish to emphasize that some ladies may appear so wonderful outside, but when you come close to them, you will discover that they are empty and dirty inside.
So you must be neat always, both in and out because men detest ladies that are dirty inside.
Moreover, another step a lady must take to actualize her desire to get married is that she must ensure that she is free from offensive body odor: Of a truth, some ladies have an offensive body odor, and as a result, no matter how beautiful they may appear, when men come close to them and notice that they have body odor, they normally run away.
Take for instance what happened in India, “Indian Wife ‘smells’ so Husband files for divorce”.
If a man could divorce his wife because of body odor, do you think that a man looking for a woman to marry will comfortably go for a lady with body odor? So deal ruthlessly with a body odor if any of you have one.
Some ladies with body odor, but manage to hide it now from the man before marriage, after marriage, the man may still abandon you later on after he discovers, so tackle the issue of bad body odor if you have it.
Another step similar to the one mentioned above is offensive mouth odor: If it is your desire to actualize your desire to get married, then ensure that you don’t have a mouth odor.
If you have any, ensure that you tackle it squarely because that could prevent men from coming close to you for marriage. If you can’t confirm from a man if you have mouth odor, do so from your fellow ladies.
Apart from body or mouth odor, another issue that puts men off about ladies is vaginal discharge/odor. There are ladies, whenever they are menstruating each month, what comes out carries an offensive odor.
Others have discharge coming out even if they are not menstruating, and the discharge carries an offensive odor. I learned that infections from dirty toilets could cause the above problem.
So as a lady desiring to actualize her desire to get married, ensure that you don’t have an offensive vaginal discharge. If you do, but hide it from the man, after marriage, he will eventually discover, he could later abandon you.
You should ask yourself what could possibly cause a marriage to break up in less than six months after marriage.
To avoid embarrassment, treat yourself very well if you happen to have this kind of problem.
If a man happens to approach you for marriage while treating yourself, let him know of the problem, if he loves you, he will bear with you and still go ahead to marry you and help you to treat the problem.
Finally, deal with repulsive character: If you are a lady desiring to actualize her desire to get married, you must pay attention to your character.
The characters of some ladies are so repulsive that men can’t stand it, especially when the ladies are angry.
I remember one incident involving my friend who married after me. There was a lady he was looking upon to marry, one day he summoned the courage to go and talk to the lady, but he started by asking her one foolish question(not a personal question).
The answer he got from the lady was so scary and abusive that the man had to run away. As a lady, desiring to actualize her desire to get married, then you should comport yourself and never abuse a man who comes your way because you may not know when you are scaring away a potential husband.
The point I am trying to make here is that you should never abuse any man who says he wants to marry you no matter who he is, or his job.
This is because you never know if he is trying to connect you with somebody else. I rest my Biro, for now, hoping and praying that God will visit you and grant your heart’s desire and that before long, you actualize your heart’s desire to get in married. Shalom.
