When you interact with average ladies in our society today, you will observe that what is utmost the heart desires of most of them are to settle down in marriage.
The majority of these ladies have done all they could do to get men to marry them but to no avail.
Some of these ladies are in their early or late thirties, they are already showing desperation and frustration because of their inability to get married. Greater numbers of them are now boldly advertising their availability for marriage.
However, the truth of the matter is that in this life, there are men and women who will not taste marriage till they die.
One of the heart aches of some of these ladies is that they are receiving disappointments when they feel that they almost succeeded in getting married.
For that reason, some ladies go to the extent of committing suicide when they reach certain age and no man is forth coming for marriage.
I wish say that it is not supposed to be so for you as God is saying, “let my daughters go and get married”.
As it was said of Israel in Exodus 8:1 which says, and the LORD spoke to Moses, “Go to Pharaoh and say to him, ‘thus says the LORD: “Let My people go, that they may serve Me.
In other words, God is equally saying the same to ladies, “let my daughters go and get married”. However, as Isaiah 1:19 says, you must be willing and obedient. “If you are willing and obedient, you shall eat the good of the land”
What I mean to say is that this post is for those ladies who are willing and ready to be obedient to identify and confront what are holding them from getting married and ready to enforce their way through as to get married.
This topic is the product of the result of the testimony of what happened recently to a lady. According to that testimony, the lady said that the city where she was living, she lived in the last floor of a six-storey building.
The said lady was in her late thirties, after being frustrated by her inability to get married, one of her friend invited her to a program in a church called Mountain of Fire Ministries where Dr. DK Olukoya ministered.
The lady said that she gave her life to Christ the first day of the program and on the second and last day, she joined and prayed her heart out in violent and fire fire prayers.
After the program, she came home that night and observed that somebody was lying covered in her bed. Initially she wanted to run but remembered that she was just coming from a prayer meeting. She then tipped toed and removed the bed clothes.
She was shocked to the marrow as she saw a big python snake lying dead on her bed. The said lady ran to explain the incident to the pastor who told her that it was the spirit husband that was cast out from her that manifested in that form.
To cut the long story short, that week, a long time friend that dated her many years ago, who recently came back to the country called her. From that call, they got reunited and eventually got married.
The second incident was about a lady who sent me her pictures asking me “princevinco am I not beautiful for men to desire to marry me?
I replied that beauty alone cannot fetch her husband to marry her. This is actually the real problem with some ladies; they feel that because of their beauty, men will struggle to marry them.
To this end, if you are a lady and feel that men will rush to marry you because of your beauty, you are mistaken. Beauty alone cannot fetch you a husband. Moreover, as they say “the beautiful ones are not yet born”.
Regarding the lady that sent me her pictures, I counseled her that as beauty alone cannot fetch her husband, that she should submit herself for deliverance.
Do you know that after deliverance was ministered to her, after service the next Sunday, three men proposed marriage to her? The next Sunday, marriage proposal doubled to six.
The lady today is happily married because she took action that confronted what had prevented her from getting married before.
What the two stories above translate to is that as a lady desiring to marry, you must actually show your readiness and willingness to get married.
Doing so may require your taking responsibilities and positive actions to prove of your obedience and willingness.
Having said that, we shall be going ahead in the next posts to look at some positive actions some men and women need to take as to enforce their freedom to go and get married.
As a lady, will you be willing and as well as obedient to heed my counsel? If so, keep a date with us next as we will X-ray certain issues ladies and gentlemen need to break off from if they actually wish to go and get married. Shalom!
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