When we were growing up, and ever before we got married, it had been our expectation and dream of our going to enjoy an exciting marriage.
However and in reality, there are many who are enjoying their marriage to the fullness while some couples, their marriages are awful failures and nothing to write home about it.
Some couples had ended their marriage while others are still managing to hold on and thus are enduring their marriage instead of enjoying it.
When you look at various marriages, you will see that what is making the difference is the level of commitment. The level of commitment of respective couples to each other and to their marriage determines the level of successful or failure such couple in their marriage.
That is to say, the level to which couples enjoy their marriages is determined by the level to which such couples are committed to their marriages and spouses.
In other words, some of the marriage failures we are seeing today are the result of lack of commitment to their marriage and spouse as some couples are never committed to their marriages.
Of a truth, couples who are well committed to each other and to their marriages, they will never allow anything to happen to their marriages while couples who are not committed to each other and to their marriages, very little and irrelevant matters may crash their marriages.
Before going further, I wish to ask, “To what extent are you committed to your spouse and to your marriage”? That is to say, “what is the level of your commitment to your marriage and your spouse”?
I wish to assure couples that no matter how their marriage had fared so far or in the past as a result of lack of commitment, if both couples will resolve today to get more committed to each other and to their marriage, they will surely see that their marriage will take a positive turnaround.
Such positive turnaround will in turn cause them to begin to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage. Are you willing and ready to take it up and get more committed?
From my experience in marriage counseling over the years, there are certain issues that marriage crises normally begins, therefore if couples are ready and willing to get more committed in such areas, they will continue to enjoy blossoming marriages.
One of the area couples need to show more commitment in their marriage is love for each other. Genuine love for each other is the oil that lubricates every marriage:
So if couples want to see their marriage to be more successful and exciting, then they should do everything possible to increase the level of love they have for each other.
The truth of the matter is that it takes more commitment to see your love for each other to grow while the lack of commitment will cause love for each other to diminish, sour or even die.
One other important area couples need to show more commitment to each other and to their marriage is the area of satisfying each other $exually.
A look at what is causing many marriages to crash is the issue of $exual disharmony or lack of $exual satisfaction in marriage. Most infidelity in marriages are caused by $exual disharmony in marriages or lack of $exual satisfaction in marriages.
Couples who wish to see their marriage to blossom more and more, they must show more commitment in satisfying their spouse $exually in their marriages with any condition attached.
Again it is said that the gateway to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but it is so unfortunate that some women had abandoned this traditional role of taking care of the feeding of their family.
The problem with some women is that they don’t even know how to cook and as such their husbands don’t bother to eat at home. Wives, if they wish to see their marriages blossom more and more, then they needs to be more committed in taking good care of the feeding of their families.
On the other hands, the problem is that some men of the house are not bothered about what their families eats at home by not providing enough money for the upkeep of their families.
Only if couples will show more commitment in performing their traditional role at home, their marriages will surely start to blossom.
Moreover, another issue that calls for more serious commitment on the parts of couples is the issue of intimacy. Some couples don’t have time for each other yet it is a necessity that couples create quality time to be together as to create intimacy.
Talking about intimacy, some men are mostly to blame as some women are suffering in silence because they feel abandoned by their husbands. For that reason, most women that got involved in extra marital affairs is as a result of their husbands not paying attention to create intimacy.
One other area is mutual respect and as well as cherishing each other: A man who respects and cherishes his wife will never raise his hand to beat his wife for any reason while a woman will never open her mouth to abuse a man she cherishes and respects.
Couple who respect and cherishes each other, they are sure to enjoy blossoming and successful marriages. For such couples, they should show more commitment in the respect and cherishing of each other.
From all that is said above, you will agree with me that couples holds the master key to enjoy blossoming marriage if they will be ready and willing to show more commitment in all these areas mentioned above. Shalom!