While we were growing up, and before we got married, we were all expecting and dreamed of enjoying marital bliss and exciting as well an exciting marriage.
But in reality, there are many who are enjoying their marriage to the fullest while some couples, their marriages are awful failures. Some had ended their marriage, while others are still managing to hold on and thus are enduring their marriage instead of enjoying it.
When you look at various marriages, you will see that what is making the difference in such marriages is the level of commitment. The level of commitment of couples to each other and to their marriage determines the level of success or failure such couple obtains in their marriage.
That is to say, the level to which we enjoy our marriage is a function of the level to which we are committed to our marriage and spouse. In other words, some of the many marriage failures, we are seeing today is a result of a lack of commitment to their marriage and spouse.
The truth is that couples who are well committed to each other and to their marriage will never allow anything to happen to their marriage. However, for those couples who are not committed to each other and to their marriages, very few irrelevant matters may crash their marriages.
Before going further, I wish to ask, “To what extent are you committed to your spouse and to your marriage”? That is to say, “what is the level of your commitment to your marriage and your spouse”?
I wish to assure you, that no matter how your marriage had fared in the past, as a result of a lack of commitment to each other and your marriage. If couples will decide today to get more committed to each other and to their marriage, they will see that their marriage will surely take a positive U-turn, and they will begin to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage.
Areas We Need To Show More Commitment to Each Other and Our marriages
Love is the oil that lubricates every marriage, so if you want to see your marriage be successful and exciting, then you should do everything possible to increase the level of love you have for each other.
The truth of the matter is that it takes more commitment to see your love for each other to grow, while the lack of commitment will cause love for each other to diminish and die.
One other area you need to show more commitment to each other and to your marriage is in the area of satisfying each other $exually.
A look at what is causing many marriages to crash is the issue of unsatisfied $exual desires. If you show more commitment to satisfying your spouse $exually, your marriage will last long.
Again, it is a fact that the gateway to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but it is unfortunate that some women had abandoned this traditional role of taking good care of feeding their family.
The problem with some women is that they don’t know how to cook, and as such their husbands don’t bother to eat at home. On the other hand, the issue is that the men in such marriages never bothered about what their family eats at home by not providing them enough money for the upkeep of their family.
Only if couples will show more commitment in performing their traditional role at home, their marriages will surely improve for the better.
Moreover, another issue that calls for a more serious commitment on the parts of couples is the issue of intimacy. Some couples don’t have time for each other, yet it is a necessity that couples create quality time to e together to create intimacy.
Respecting and as well as cherishing one’s spouse: A man who respects and cherishes his wife will never raise his hand to beat his wife for any reason, while a woman will never open her mouth to abuse a man she cherishes and respects.
Couples who respect and cherish each other are sure to enjoy an exciting and successful marriage, and such couples should show more commitment in the respect and cherishing each other. Shalom!
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