The ultimate heart desire of most ladies is to get married to a befitting husband of their own and settle done. For that reason, single ladies are doing whatever possible it takes for them to actualize their desire. Some are even using unconventional mean like using a love potion to get men to marry them.
Some out of frustration even commit suicide if at a certain age men are not forthcoming for marriage. http://metro.co.uk/2015/02/11/woman-commits-suicide-because-she-was-unmarried-and-had-no-children-by-30-5058139/
You are still single and it is your desire to get married soon, the point is that you don’t know what it takes to get a man to be interested in you as to request for your hands in marriage.
Some ladies especially Christian sisters are busy bombarding heaven in prayer asking God to give them befitting husbands while single men are doing the same asking God to give them good wives.
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In other words, you must necessarily be a good woman worthy to be a wife for God to give you a good man as your husband. The point is that some ladies desire and ask for a good husband, but they don’t bother to ask themselves whether they will make a good wife.
So the number one secret is to seek to be a virtuous woman. Remember that the Bible said that Instead of praying for God to give you a befitting husband.
You should rather pray that God should make you a virtuous woman, a woman worthy of marriage. There is no way you will be a virtuous woman that men will not struggle to be the one to marry you.
Secondly, seek to be an asset and not a liability: One of the reasons that men are not interested in marrying you may be that they see you as a liability. Once men prove that you are an asset and not a liability, they will rush to marry you.
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Another secret is that you should learn to prepare good food. One of the reasons that some ladies found it difficult to get men to marry them is that men have confirmed that they don’t know how to cook.
It is said, a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. So, men who desire to be enjoying quality meals at home, when such men confirm that you don’t know how to cook, they will surely avoid getting your hands in marriage.
Moreover, ladies who knew how to prepare delicacies, they don’t want men for husband as men do struggle to marry them. So ladies, if I counsel you, I will use my spare time or weekend to attend a catering school to learn how to prepare delicacies.
Again, another secret is that you should show men that your character is worthy of marriage by being submissive. The truth is that there are ladies who by their character who will never accept to be under any man. So when men found out that they will never be submissive, they tend to run away from seeking their hands in marriage.
For instance, I know one church, the choir mistress, if you see the way she talks to and abuse men who were choir members. That is men who are in a position to be her husband.
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Each time I see her abusing men, I ask myself if men who see that will accept to go for her for marriage. In other words, if men will prove that you will be submissive, they will come and marry you while they will run away from seeking for your hands in marriage if they confirm that you will never be submissive.
Another secret is that you should avoid being quarrelsome: This is a fact, some ladies are so quarrelsome and that is why men avoid them for marriage. Such ladies, they can quarrel with you over a little issue and are ready to fight over it.
Even the Bible something about it in Proverbs 25:24 “It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman”. So if men confirm that you are quarrelsome, they will surely avoid you for marriage.
For instance, a lady created a scene last time in a bus stop because she tore the shirt of a bus conductor because of 10 naira and the conductor tore her own gown, if not that the lady was wearing tight she would have been made her naked.
It was one of the passersby that removed one her rapper to cover the lady. The cause of their quarrel was 10 naira balance. As a young man looking for a wife, will you marry a lady fighting over ten naira?
Lastly, another very important secret is that you should ensure that there is no spirit husband or a spell preventing you from getting married: I have written many articles about spirit husband so try to read them.
The point I am trying to make here is that you need to submit yourself for deliverance to confirm that you don’t have any issue with a spirit husband or a spell/curses.
Finally, as a lady, ensure that you know your size as it is said that every shoe in the market has size. What I mean is that you should know the social class you belong to.
Take, for instance, ladies who did not have the opportunity to go to secondary school but are looking upon male graduates to marry them. In other words, the kind of men you desire to marry, will such men accept to marry you?
Finally, my lady, your beauty not withstanding if fail to possess other qualities mentioned above, it will be hard for men to desire to marry you.
However, if you possess all these qualities, you will observe that you will have a choice to make as more that two men will seek your hands in marriage.
