In our society today, some ladies even though they are beautiful to behold are still single and may remain single till they die unless something drastic are done.
Some other ladies, even though they eventually got married but their marriages did not last as they were thrown out by their husbands or divorced by their husbands.
While some ladies, they may be wondering why men are not interested in coming for them for marriage? Others may equally be concerned as to why they could not sustain their marriages.
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One of the main reasons why some ladies may never marry and why those who end up marrying may never sustain their marriages. Such reason may be seen in the Bible in the books of Proverbs and 31:10 and Proverbs 9:13.
The two references talked about a virtuous woman and the qualities of a virtuous woman while the other one about “A foolish clamorous woman.
As a woman, either married or single, it will do you good to study and digest what was said about a virtuous woman in PROVERBS 31 and what was said about a clamorous woman.
Men like myself who got married to virtuous women are so proud of them while as men who got married to clamorous women are regretting, while some men could no longer endure such clamorous women and decided to sack them
As a single lady desiring that men would come for you for marriage, you should understand that such men, they need to be convinced that you are a virtuous woman and not a clamorous woman.
According to Encarta Dictionary’s definition, clamorous has three different definitions: 1. Demanding attention: demanding attention loudly and insistently
2. Loud: loud and excited or angry
3. Noisy: making a loud noise
Thesaurus definition on the other hands defined clamorous as noisy, vociferous, loud, rowdy, boisterous, deafening, riotous, and raucous.
If you observe the dressings of clamorous women, you will see that their dressings are always demanding for attention loudly and insistently.
In other words, the appearances of clamorous women are noisy, vociferous, loud and rowdy. Their appearances are as well boisterous, deafening, riotous, and raucous.
In addition, clamorous women are said to be raucous, I was thrilled of the meaning of raucous. Thesaurus defined raucous as wild, loud, boisterous, harsh, disorderly, rough, unruly, hoarse, riotous, rowdy, and noisy.
Practically, as said, the dressings of clamorous women or ladies are always demanding for attention loudly and insistently.
That is clamorous women or ladies can never dress or wear clothes that did not expose parts of their bodies that supposed to be covered.
Some of them wear so transparent dress or short skate that you can literally be seeing their pants, all because they are demanding for attention.
Some clamorous women always dress to show off their cleavages. In fact, one of such clamorous lady is so notorious in dressing to show off her boobs, and she is so proud to be answering the queen of boobs. No wonder no man is showing any interest in marrying her.
If you are still a single man, pray hard that you don’t end up marrying a clamorous lady because some men who had ended marring clamorous women, many of such men had died before their time while some are quick to divorce their clamorous wives.
On the other hands, the Book of Proverbs 31:10-12 said something about the virtuous woman Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. Obviously, virtuous women are not common, but they are hard to find, and they are priceless.
Also, the Book of proverbs 12:4 says, “A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband”. In other words, it is far better to marry a virtuous than it is to marry a foolish clamorous woman.
All that I am saying is that as a woman that is still single, you are still single because men, that is potential husbands are not convinced that you a marriageable material or a virtuous woman.
To this end, all you need to do is by your actions and utterances prove to them that you are not a clamorous woman but rather a virtuous woman.
Once you succeed to convince them, they will struggle to be the one to get your hands in marriage.
Moreover, as a married woman, strive to be a virtuous woman, as well pray that God should make you a virtuous woman that is a crown to her husband.
Once your husband proves that you are a virtuous woman, he will strive to do his own part in loving and cherishing you all the days of your life. No man in his right senses would ever dream of divorcing a virtuous woman.
In summary, virtuous women are not common, but they are hard to find, and they are priceless. Pray to be one of the virtuous women and you will never lack a man to marry you, if you are married already, your husband will always love and cherish you.
Until I come your way again, remember what Proverbs 19: 14 says, “House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife (a virtuous woman) is from the LORD”.
So pray that God will give you a virtuous woman as a wife (a prudent wife). Shalom!.
