For ladies who are in their early twenties, the issue of marriage may not bother them. However, ladies who are in their late thirties, some have started or begun to worry about the issue of marriage, some even fearing that they may never get married in life.
If you ask such ladies, they will tell you that their utmost heart’s desire is to marry soonest and settle down with the husband of theirs. We shall be looking at what will show we are ready to actualize your dream of marching to the altar soonest.
I want to point out that the reason some ladies are yet to get married or get men to marry them is that they don’t know what it takes to get men to say they want to marry them.
You will agree with me that, before a man will look at you and genuinely desire to marry you and mean it, you may have made a deep impression in his life that he desires to marry you.
To go about it, you need to carry out a critical analysis of your life and situation by asking and answering yourself the following Questions:
(1) Am I marriageable? Why are men not coming to me for marriage?
(2) Do I have what it takes to get a man to marry me?
(3) If a man should marry me today, will the man feel proud and happy that she married me?
(4) If a man marries me today, will I be an asset or a liability to the man?
(5) Do I have evidence to show that I am ready and willing to get married?
Your sincere answers to the above questions are necessary if you wish to marry soonest.
Question One: Some ladies, even though they are desirous to get married, they are not the marriageable type and men see them that way; that is why men are not coming to marry them.
A man needs to be convinced beyond all reasonable doubt that you are marriageable before he genuinely approaches you for marriage. Question Two: Do I have what it takes to get a man to marry me?
I talked so much about packaging in some of my other posts “my lady so is your desire to marry part 2”. Some ladies, the way they package themselves, you wonder if they will ever get a man to marry them.
My lady, you need to pay extreme attention to the way you package yourself if you want men to struggle to marry you. I know a lady, after schooling her on the packaging, three men appeared and started to pester her about marriage.
Question Three: If a man should marry me today, will the man feel proud and happy that he married me? The problem with some ladies is that they focus much attention on the type or quality of men they want to marry. However, they, fail to ask themselves whether that quality of a man will find them appealing to want to marry them.
This goes hand in hand with packaging, focus attention on yourself, work on yourself, and make and prove to yourself that you are quality material. Believe me, when men see that you are of quality in character and other things, they will strive to be the one to marry you.
Question Four: Those who went to school and are working-class ladies have passed partially this question. But some, are so lazy that if they should marry, men who marry them are marrying in bundles of liabilities.
So if you wish to marry soonest, you need to prove to men that you are and will continue to be an asset to the man who ends up marrying you. Believe me, when a man is convinced that you are an asset and will continue to be an asset, he will come for you for marriage.
My lady, tackle these four questions and I will be happy to receive your mail that you got married after applying the information got from this post. I pray for you and see you soonest in your befitting husband’s home.
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