In our society and in reality, it is the utmost heart’s desire of most ladies to hook up with men in marriage. Some ladies get worried and agitated when they reach a certain age and still unmarried.
Some ladies feel that they have done all they have to do, but no man is interested in marrying them. But I wish to say boldly that one of the reasons why you have not gotten a man to marry you is because you have not done the right or correct thing as to get a man to marry you or that there are some things in you that are repealing men away from you.
In this post, therefore, we shall be looking at some actions that ladies who wish to actualize their dream of getting the hands of men in marriage should take.
As a lady, if you wish to celebrate your marital destiny soon, all you need to do is to consciously take positive actions that show evidence that you are available, you are ready, you are willing and as well as your preparedness for marriage. These four things must be in place before you can actualize your dream.
This is a known fact, what you are ready and prepared for naturally comes to you. In other words, before men will come to seek for your hands in marriage, such men would have been convinced of your availability, preparedness, your readiness and as well as your willingness to go into marriage.
However, the point is that some ladies, even though they desire to marry, but by their actions, they are not ready or prepared for marriage. That is to say, they are not available for marriage.
I wish to boldly point out that one of the reasons for many failed marriages today is because some entered into marriage when they were neither ready nor prepared for marriage.
As a marriage counselor, I am bold to reveal to you ladies that potential husbands, all that they are looking for and want to be convinced of about you is that you are a wife material or a marriageable material and also that you are ready and prepared for marriage.
However, note that even if you are wife material, you need to show convincing evidence that you are ready and available for marriage by your actions. Some ladies desire to marry while at the same time, they are not available for marriage.
Please try and read my earlier posts, “desire to marry, but not available for marriage”. It is obvious; men will never seek for your hands in marriage if they feel that you are not ready or available for marriage.
PRACTICAL STEPS LADIES NEED TO TAKE TO PROVE TO MEN, THAT THEY ARE READY, WILLING AND PREPARED FOR MARRIAGE:
First, you need to be conscious of the way you enter into a deep relationship with married men or sugar daddies. Of a truth, some ladies’s pride themselves of being in deep relationships with very rich married men who are not ready to marry them.
You should understand that as long as you are in deep relationship with married men or sugar daddy, you are indirectly telling young men and potential husbands to stay clear, that you are not available for marriage.
Therefore, If you wish to actualize your dream of celebrating your marital destiny, then you have no choice but to break your relationships with all the sugar daddies or married men.
Moreover, it is very obvious; you can never eat your cake and still have it. Some ladies do consider all the good things of life the sugar daddies provide for them and are torn apart when they consider the opportunity cost of marriage and that of the goodies they are currently enjoying from the sugar daddies.
Secondly, you also show how ready and prepared you are for marriage by your dressing or appearance/packaging. You should realize that the way you dress is the way you are addressed. You can’t be dressing like a prostitute and expect to see responsible young men will rush to seek for your hands in marriage.
Again, if it is your desire to celebrate your marital destiny, then you really need to analyze your life to confirm the reason why men are not showing interest in asking for your hands in marriage and what happened to your previous relationship with men.
You should ask yourself “why do men who related to me previously refuse to marry me, but left me and went for another lady”?
So you should really consider and ensure that there are no scary issues about your person and character? The Bible in the book of Proverbs said something about a contentious and angry woman, Proverbs 21:9 “Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Also Proverbs 21:19 “Better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman”
So, I want you to realize that men tend to run away from the ladies they consider that are always angry and contentious. So you really need to fine-tune your character to ensure that marching to the altar to celebrate your marital destiny comes soonest.
Also, if celebrating your marital destiny is your desire, then you really need to deal with any known issue in your life, issues that prevent ladies from getting married.
Of a truth, one of such issues that prevent or delay ladies from getting married is offensive body odors. In reality, some ladies have an offensive body odor, which is really an issue that prevents them from getting married.
For instance, a woman in Delta has lost her husband after her husband divorced her for smelling bad.
So if married men could divorce their wives over offensive body odor, do you think that men could rush to get your hands in marriage if they confirm that you have a terrible offensive body odor?
So you should ensure that you don’t have an offensive body odor. Assuming that you have, treated thoroughly anything that is causing you body odor if you ever wish to celebrate your marital destiny.
End of part one, to be continued, so go to part 2. GO HERE to read part two.