This is the second part of our discourse on the above subject matter. In part one; we started to look at practical steps ladies who wish to celebrate their marital destiny should take. GO HERE To Read It If You Have Not Read It For A Better Understanding.
If you wish to celebrate your marital destiny soon, then I wish that you realize that all that men need is the assurance that you are a marriageable lady or a marriage material. I am sorry to point out that some ladies are not marriageable or marriage material at all and they knew it.
One attribute of marriageable ladies is that the bible calls such virtuous women. Proverbs 12:4 says, “A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. Also Proverbs 31:10 says, “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.
All you need to do is to pray that God should make you a virtuous woman. I bet or assure you, once men see and are convinced that you are a virtuous woman, they will rush and compete who will be the one to get you for a wife.
In addition, another attribute of marriageable women is submissive to their husbands. Men really consider women who they*feels are ready and willing to respect and submit to them in their choice of the women they wish to marry.
Moreover, it is a known fact and it is said that the gateway to a man’s heart is through his stomach. In other words, one other attribute of a virtuous woman is her ability to prepare delicious delicacies.
If I were you, I will consider going to a catering school to learn how to cook and prepare delicacies. I say this because men tend to run away from the ladies they consider not marriageable, ladies who don’t know how to cook or take care of the basic home matters.
Furthermore, please read what the bible said about the virtuous woman again in Proverbs 31. The summary is that a virtuous woman is a blessing and an asset to her husband.
Of a truth, there are men who were doing very well in business before they got married. But soon after they got married, their business collapsed because the women they married are bundles of liabilities.
In the same vein, there are men who were struggling in their business before they got married. But soon they got married, their businesses started to boom as a result of the contribution of their wives.
In other words, if men fear that you are or will be a liability if they marry you, they will never ask for your hands in marriage while as if they feel that you will be a blessing and an asset to them, they will rush to seek for your hands in marriage.
Finally, I wish to point out that there are ladies who are beautiful to behold, they may come from a nice family background and as well as possessing a wonderful character, in other words, they are marriage materials, yet no man has ever said to them ” I will like to marry you”.
If you are one of such ladies, and may have done all you need to do to attract men to marry you, but to no avail, then I will counsel you or point out to you that you need a spiritual x-ray of your life.
This spiritual x-ray is to ensure or confirm that there are no spiritual issues that are preventing you from getting married or scarring or chasing away men who came and wish to marry you.
There are really some spiritual connotations to the delay in marriage of some ladies. Of a truth, I wish to point out that some ladies, the devil had placed veil or sort of spiritual covering over them. As long as you are under such a veil or covering, no man will see your true image.
Some of other spiritual issues include (i) the issue of spirit husbands (ii) the issue of curses and spell. Never wave the above issues aside as they could be what are holding or what will prevent you from celebrating your marital destiny, if you fail to take care of them.
My dear, if you diligently take care of all the issues I pointed out above, I assure you, before the end of this year, you will be smiling as you will surely be celebrating your marital destiny.
Until I come your way again, stay committed, be ready, available, willing and prepared to march to the altar this year to celebrate your marital destiny. Shalom