One lady celebrity was quoted expressly voicing out her frustration and her desperate desire for a husband when she exclaimed “oh! GOD, I need a husband”.
I will say boldly that she is not alone, as it is the desperate desire of many ladies to settle down with men in marriage.
Many of them had reached the highest pinnacle of their career but they are not happy because they needed to settle down with a husband.
It is unfortunate that many of them looked and blamed GOD as if GOD was responsible for their not been married.
Of a truth, GOD is never responsible for a lady not been married and will never be responsible.
In this write-up, we shall try to x-ray things that may cause a delay in the marriage for some ladies.
In the first instance , the issue of Spirit husband comes out as number one: A lady may package herself very well, the past lifestyle may be wonderful, and maybe in her correct age.
She may be well educated and with nice job yet she may still not get a man to marry her if the issue of spirit husband is not adequately dealt with.
I want to say and will continue to emphasize that the issue of spirit husband is responsible and a major cause of delayed marriage by some ladies.
This is because some spirit husbands may never allow their host ladies to marry.
You need to read the article on you and spirit husband/wife for details. If you fail to deal with the issue of Spirit husband or wife, you should never turn round to blame GOD for your not being married.
Secondly, some ladies are under terrible curses/spells: Yes, some ladies by their past lifestyle might have done some terrible things in the past that may have attracted curses/spells on their lives.
Some it is a generational curse that is their problem of not getting married earlier in life.
I wish to point out, the issue of curses/spells, as long as it remains unbroken; it does hinder or prevent some women from getting married.
For instance, a lady who dated a married man may have been caused by the man’s wife.
Moreover, there are ladies who are still single because they lost opportunities of being married in the past: Also I wish to point out that some ladies who are still single though they ought to have been married may be those who may have lost their opportunities earlier in a life of been married.
You see, most ladies when they were in their twenties, they were so arrogant that they treated young men who wish to marry them with disrespect.
This was because, at that period of their lives, they were on top of their world and some men were pestering them for marriage.
But instead of going with young men who would have later married them, they prefer to move with sugar daddies. (Not all the overgrown single ladies are guilty anyway).
This is a bitter truth to say, that some single ladies who are now in their late thirties today. If they should look back in life, they will agree with me that their past lifestyle cost them to miss most of their opportunities of been married earlier in life.
Also, some ladies package themselves so poorly in the past: Yes, some ladies in the past package themselves so badly or poorly with the result that men never showed interest in them as to marry them.
To learn more about packaging, See the article on “my lady, so you wish to marry” for details on packaging.
You will agree with me that before a man will say “I want to marry you”, you must have made some impression on the man or attracted to him in the first place.
But in a situation by reason of poor packaging, some ladies may have scared potential men away who may have married them, that may be the reason why they are still single.
Again, some ladies, by their past lifestyle lived some horrible lives: Of a truth, the past lifestyles of most ladies are nothing to write home about and that may be the cause of them not getting married now.
As said earlier, when they were in their twenties, they were on top of their world and may have rejected many potential husbands that time who may have married them.
Some of them may be sleeping around with men that a potential husband may have passed by and see them as a cheap article and public toilet.
The bitter truth is that most ladies are like that even now and yet turn around to blame God for their marital frustration. They easily jump into bed with any man that throws currency at them.
(Note that you are a very cheap article for any man who conquers you in bed for money sake).
I should point out that some ladies, their marital problem is over packaging: Most ladies fall into one of what I call over packaging.
Such ladies, you may see them today in Paris, tomorrow in London, and next tomorrow in New York. For such ladies, it will take the grace of GOD for such ladies to marry because men who are in their class are but few in number.
Such ladies, their profiles are outstanding that average men are intimidated already. For such class of ladies above, can you imagine young graduates no matter their age, who had never seen the inside of a plane that will summon the courage to propose to such ladies?
Not that those ladies don’t get suitors, but you know very well that as a high-class ladies, such men are not in your class and are far below your standard.
Such marriages never work unless the ladies will accept to fly across the globe with such men. Otherwise, the ladies would be ready to sacrifice a lot because they had to forgo certain lifestyle for the sake of the husbands.
CAUTION: Ladies should never for the sake of marriage they marry men who are far below their class or standard unless the men are willing and ready to learn and adjust to their standard within the shortest time.
If you ever marry a man who is not willing to adjust to their standard or the ladies may have to adjust to the men’s standard if the marriage is to work.
I said in one of my write-ups, as a lady never shows desperation over the issue of marriage or they will see men who will capitalize on it to defraud them and break their heart, so ladies be wise and cautious.
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