In this life and in our society today, it is the joy and heart’s desire of an average lady to get married and settle down with befitting men of their dream and choice. At a certain age, some ladies get worried and agitated if men are not forthcoming to marry them.
Some of the ladies end up committing suicide if at a certain age, they are not married and have lost hope of ever getting married in life.
Others get so frustrated that they pack and start living with men that show them slighted attention.
In other words, it is frustration that made some ladies to co-inhibit with men they are not legally married to. What I am saying is a bitter truth and that is why some ladies don’t like to read my articles even though others learn valuable lessons from the articles.
It is penitent to point out that most of these ladies, while as it is their heart’s desire to get married, their lifestyles are disgraceful which is destroying their marital destiny.
It is the saying of my people “that a snail is roasting in a fire, but claim that it is putting out the fire by the oil that it is emitting from its body”.
The same is true of most ladies, they are destroying their personalities and marital destiny by their actions and lifestyle, yet they are thinking that these irresponsible actions are getting them popularity. Yes, the things that made these ladies popular equally destroyed their marital destiny.
This is a fact or gospel truth, there are ladies, they are “beautiful and celebrated, but they are not marriageable”. This is true of some lady celebrities, they are beautiful to behold and as well as celebrated but when it comes to the issue of marriage, they may never marry because they are not marriageable.
Some of them may never marry because what made them popular equally destroyed their marital destiny that men never consider them for marriage.
Obviously, some of these ladies, if you consider the numbers of their social media followers, that is, if you consider their popularity, especially among social media, you may wonder why are they still single instead of being married?.
Some of these ladies ended up marrying, but since they are not marriageable, their marriages come crashing within a few years of their marriage.
This is an obvious truth, some of these ladies, they are still single not because they don’t want to marry, but because no man wants to marry them.
The gospel truth is that before any man will look at you and desire to live the rest of his life with you by taking your hands in marriage, he must have considered you to be of quality and marriageable.
As said, these single ladies even though they are so popular among social media, but they are still single and you may be wondering why men, not even one of their followers wish to seek for their hands in marriage.
The bitter truth is that most of the things that made these ladies popular equally destroyed their marital destiny because no man considers them for marriage being not marriageable.
Yes, it is a fact, marriage is not a day affair,’ but for a lifetime and the quality of a man that seek for your hands in marriage depends on the totality and the quality of your person.
A man must have been convinced that you are marriageable before he could seek for your hands in marriage.
So when a lady is living an irresponsible lifestyle, even though irresponsible men may be applauding her, but it is obvious fact that no responsible man will ever seek for her hands in marriage.
That is to say, men only consider such ladies only good for dates, and during a date, once the ladies satisfy their se*ually, that is the end.
They will never talk about marriage because they consider such ladies as not being good material for marriage as they are only good for the party and are wonderful in bed and nothing else.
As a lady, you should not be deceived by the massive social media followers you command if it is your heart’s desire to settle down in marriage. You must prove to men that in addition to your popularity, that you are marriageable.
As pointed out earlier, the obvious reason why some ladies are still single is that most of the action that made them popular and still making them popular equally destroyed their marital destiny.
Our society is not helping matters, they are encouraging ladies to live loose lifestyle. For instance look at the action that took place here:
The bitter truth must be told, you can’t eat your cake and still have it, you can go for a loose and irresponsible lifestyle and still desire that responsible men will rush and seek for your hands in marriage.
What I am pointing at is that you can go for a loose and irresponsible lifestyle that may make you popular at the detriment of your marital destiny or you can go for a responsible lifestyle that makes men desire to marry you, the choice is yours.
In other words, as a lady, you should know that men read meaning to your actions so you should be conscious never to allow your actions and lifestyle to betray your true self.
A word is enough for the wise. So never follow the footsteps of ladies who had destroyed their marital destinies unless you end up regretting your actions yourself by destroying your marital destiny as well.
In conclusion, remember what wise Solomon said in the book of Ecclesiastes said in Ecclesiastes 11:9 which says, “Rejoice, O young man, in thy youth; and let thy heart cheer thee in the days of thy youth, and walk in the ways of thine heart, and in the sight of thine eyes: but know thou, that for all these things God will bring thee into judgment.
So go ahead enjoy your youth while it last, but remember ……… Shalom.