My lady, you are welcome to the year 2018. Recently, I was listening to a message by Bishop David Oyedepo on MP3. In that message, he was talking about the foolishness of doing the same thing repeatedly and yet expects to get a different result. To get a different result in what we are doing in our life especially in the year 2018, we must necessarily do different things.
Bringing this home my lady; you are still single because all you did in 2017 did not work on getting any man to marry you. In other words, the year 2018 may still come and go without your getting married if you repeat the same things that you did in 2017 and other years that didn’t work.
In this post, we shall be talking about doing different things in 2018 that are different from what you did in 2017. In other words, there are things you did in 2017 that scared potential husbands away while as there are things you failed to do that would have fetched you a husband.
So if you will give heed to the following bitter truths I will be sharing with you, the year 2018 will surely be your year of marital celebration as you will enjoy a marital breakthrough. The first counseling I normally give to any lady that comes my way that is ripe for marriage but no man was forthcoming is to find out what is wrong with the issue of their marriage.
I have shared in many posts reasons why many ladies are still single, why many of them may never marry, so try and take time to read some of these posts. Here, I want to repeat it, the major reasons why you are still single may have a spiritual connotation more than physical.
In other words, try to find out that your problems are not spiritual? Among the spiritual problems is the issue of spirit husbands, problems of cures and spells. If you have any of these spiritual problems but fails to deal with them, 2018 may still elude you from getting married.
FOR MORE READING: Understanding The Issue Or Mystery Of Spirit Husband/Wife
I suggested doing what I called spiritual x-ray to confirm that you don’t have any of the spiritual problems. Testimonies abound of many ladies who had their marital breakthrough that started from the day they went for deliverance.
After you might have taken care of any spiritual problem, the second thing is that you should take action to fine-tune your character. As a lady, you should know that your character is the most important thing men will look at before any will seek for your hands in marriage.
Once men relate with you and prove that you are a marriageable type, they will struggle to be the one to get your hands in marriage while as they will run away from you for marriage if they see the opposite.
FOR MORE READING: Dealing With Issues That Prevent Ladies From Getting Married.
Other bitter truths you need to hear if you want to make 2018 your year of marital breakthrough: One of them is that you should avoid cohabitation with any man. Some ladies allow men to mess them up in the name of trying to get a man to marry them. They do so by packing their properties to live with men who just proposed to them.
By so doing, they cheapen themselves by cooking for the men and satisfying them $exually, things married men and women do. Be careful and note that over 95% of co-habitation never worked out. This is because when a man has tasted all that you have to offer before committing himself in marriage, he will cause a problem between you and himself as to break up the relationship.
Secondly, you should stop jumping to bed with men that come your way. Some ladies think that they can get a man to marry them by jumping to bed to satisfy men $exually. I used to say it; you are a cheap article to any man who conquered you in easily on a bed.
In one of my posts, I shared the testimony of a lady whose Nokia torch she was using got spoilt. The CEO of the place she was working bought for her a blackberry that worth 75K but the following day requested that the lady come and meet him in a hotel.
The lady refused and said that she cannot sell her body because blackberry and packaged the man’s blackberry for him. The man was outraged and came and collected the blackberry back. I was thrilled by the action of the lady that I replaced her Nokia torch that was spoilt.
Do you know that after three months, the man flew back to Nigeria with the same blackberry and this time he gave the lady the blackberry and the same time knelt down to ask for the ladies hands in marriage? The good news was that the finally got married. so never think that by jumping to bed with men that you can get one of them to marry you.
Another bitter truth that you need to heed is that you should mind the way you dress. It is said that the way you dress is the way you are addressed. Some ladies are fond of dressing like prostitutes but feel offended if men start to relate to them as if they are prostitutes.
Who are you dressing to please? Don’t dress to appear popular but dress to appear responsible and marriageable. There are ladies who are celebrated but they are not marriageable, don’t prove to potential husbands that you are one of them. Responsible men are looking for responsible women to marry.
Finally, be realistic in the type of man you wish and desire to marry. Recently, I asked a lady who came to me for prayer and counseling to give me an idea of the type of a man she wishes to marry. The picture of the type of a man she was expecting to marry, I told her that she cannot get such a man among men but among the angels so be realistic in what you want.
If you will do all that I said in this post, you shall surely celebrate in the year 2018 as it will be your year of marital breakthrough. Please kindly share this post with your friends and sisters as well as with ladies you feel concerned that they are overripe for marriage. Shalom.