Walking the aisle with a man to say do is one of the utmost heart desires of average and normal ladies. As a lady, it is quite normal that you have the heart’s desire to get married.
However, while it is the heart’s desire of most single ladies to get married, some had done all they could, but men are not showing interest to marry them.
Some single ladies had resorted to committing suicide when they reach a certain age and men are not ready and willing to marry them. Many of these singles are beautiful to behold, yet men are not showing up to marry them.
In reality, some ladies who are still single have done all they could do to get men to marry them, but to no avail. Some even resort to unconventional means to get men to marry them.
As a lady, you are still single because you don’t know and have not done what is required to get men interested in marrying you. So, if you will pay attention to what I am sharing here, you will have a positive story to tell.
First and foremost, you must show evidence that you are willing and ready to get married. One of the ways you show men that you are ready and willing to marry is by your availability. It is a fact, that some ladies are having the desire to marry but are not ready and some are not available for marriage.
Some ladies actually show that they are not available for marriage by their lifestyles. It is unfortunate that some ladies by their lifestyle scare young and potential husbands by their lifestyle. Such ladies, date and relate with sugar daddies that spoil them with good things in life. As a single lady, who are the kinds of men you date and relate to?
Secondly, men are looking for homemade ladies. Ladies that are willing and ready to accept the responsibilities of marriage. It is obvious; that some ladies mistakenly got married without a readiness to accept the responsibilities that go with marriage.
For that reason, not being willing to accept marriage responsibilities made the marriages of some Nollywood actresses crash. So, you must prove to men that you are willing and ready to accept marriage responsibilities.
Thirdly, what kind of man do you want to marry? One of the reasons why some ladies are still single is that they don’t know the kind of man they want as a husband. Others are because of poor or over packaging.
The issue of packaging cannot be over-emphasized. It is your knowing the kind of man you desire as a husband that influences the way you package yourself. If it is your desire to marry a working-class man, you see them in their place of work. In other words, you must be a working class.
It is unfortunate that some ladies, the kind of men they desire to marry, they don’t package themselves to meet the taste and aspirations of such men. As a lady, you should ask yourself, the man you desire to marry, whether you met the standard of such a man for marriage.
All that I am saying is that birds of the same feather flock together. As a Christian, you should not live a carnal life and be praying to get a spiritual brother as a husband. The fourth secret is “don’t prove to be a parasite in your relationship”. It is obvious, that some ladies are so parasitic and liabilities during their relationship.
Once a man is relating to you and proves that you are what you get out of that relationship and not what you put in, he will never propose marriage to you. Moreover, men tend to avoid marriage to ladies who are liabilities. Something happened recently, a man was relating with a lady who he wants to marry.
The man was using a phone worth 35,000. It happened that the screen of the lady broke. The man wanted to sponsor the replacement of the screen which will cost 6,000, but the lady insisted that she don’t want the replacement of the screen but a new similar phone.
The man went and priced the phone, and he was told 149,000. That made the man break the relationship, saying that the lady was a liability. Are you an asset or a liability?
My lady, what is your consideration for accepting the hands of a man for marriage? Your answer to this question is very important in getting a man to marry you. Some ladies, who have the foresight and are intelligent, look at the future prospect of a man, while some foolish ones only consider his present status.
For instance, one Winners Chapel pastor shared how one lady he approached for marriage years ago laughed at him. The reason for laughing at him was that according to the lady, she said that for ten years that the pastor will not be ready for marriage.
It happened that in less than two years, the pastor bought a car and later married his wife before it was three years. What happened was that the lady did not consider the prospect of the pastor.
In other words, as a lady, you should consider the future prospect of a man above his present status. Again, my lady, you need to be hospitable. Ladies who are hospitable, never lack men to marry them, compared to ladies who are not hospitable. Look at what happened in Genesis 24:11-67.
In the above Bible passage, it was the hospitality of Rebecca that fetched her husband Isaac. Finally, work on your character to remove any “but”. As a lady, you should realize that men place more consideration on the character of ladies for marriage above every other thing.
In other words, no matter how beautiful you may be, if there is any “but” in your character, men will avoid you for marriage. Until I come your way again, try the above secrets, and you will surely have a positive story to tell. Shalom!
