In our society today, one of the utmost heart desires of ladies is to get married. Some ladies get really frustrated in life after they reach certain age and men are not showing interest in marrying them.
For that reason, some ladies resort to doing some unimaginable things on the net and social media, all in effort to secure the attention of men hoping that one of them could end up marrying them. No wonder that some of them are even advertising themselves for marriage boldly on the net and social media.
However, some ladies who are not well-informed thought that they could get men to marry them by projecting their facial beauty, some ladies, it is the massive load they are carrying on their chests while some, it is the Kilimanjaro they are carrying behind them.
Other ladies are trying to impress men as they try to show them how wonderful they can be in bed. However, all these may be good for men who like them, but the truth is that no man will accept to marry them because of these.
My lady, if therefore you desire to celebrate your marital destiny soon, then you must be ready and willing to fulfill God’s essence of creating woman which is to solve man’s need of companionship which man lacked after creation.
As a lady, please let it be known that men are not bothered even if you cry and break your head over the issue of marriage as long as you are not ready and willing to fulfill God’s essence of creating a woman.
We can see what God said before creating Eve for Adam. This can be seen in Genesis 2:18 where the LORD God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”
The King James Version of the Bible rendered the above verse this way, “And the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him”.
In other words, it is to solve the issue of Adam’s loneliness that the Lord made a woman- Eve to be a helper comparable to him or help meet for him.
That is to say that when a man searching for a wife sees you and confirms that you will be a real helper or help meet for him, he will come for you for marriage.
For that reason, before a man can see you and experiences what is called a “magnative pull”, which draws you closer to him, you must have made a positive impression on him first before he begins to consider whether you could be that real help meet that he is searching for.
However, there are ladies, instead of that “magnative pull”, rather, their presence are irritating to men. That is to say, there are things about them that irritates or repelling men away from them.
That is why you see some pretty ladies, but men cannot relate with them for long not to talk of marriage. As a lady, there may be things or issues that are irritating or repelling men about your life which you may not have known. It may be those things that makes men not to be comfortable to stay close and relate with you for long?
Have it not ever bothered you as to the reason your relationships with men never last but are always short-lived? The point is that, as long as men are not comfortable staying in close relationship with you, they may never ask for your hands in marriage.
Talking about being a true help meet, once any man finds you or is convinced that you are a real help meet, he will sigh a sigh of relief in fulfillment like Adam did when he first saw Eve.
For that reason, see the reaction of Adam when he saw eve in Genesis 2:23 which says, “And Adam said, this is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman because she was taken out of Man”
In reality, some ladies cannot think of being a help meet for men when men cannot even look at their direction for marriage. One of the major reason is that such ladies wearing a satanic veil, meaning that evil veil/garments are covering their beauty.
Yes, some ladies are so pretty if you use spiritual eyes to behold them. However, because Satanic or demonic or evil forces have put an evil veil on their faces, men and potential husband will never see their real beauty. Rather, things about such ladies irritate men as they can never see their true beauty, because veils are covering them.
Secondly, there are ladies that evil forces have clothed them with offensive body odor. As such, no matter how pretty such ladies may be, once they have offensive body odor, men will never be comfortable staying or having closer relationship with them not to talk of marriage.
For instance, see what happened in Delta State in Nigeria where a woman lost her husband and marriage after her husband divorced her for smelling bad. According to pulse. ng/gist, the said woman had earlier lost her first marriage over the same issue.
Apart from offensive body odor, some ladies equally have v*ginal discharges, which made their v*gina to emit offensive bad smell.
The same pulse.ng gist also carried the news of a Bulawayo man from Zimbabwe who could not take things anymore and therefore asked a court to end his marriage with the wife over her consistent body and vaginal odor.
Think of it, men are divorcing their legally married wives over the offensive body and v*final odor, do you think that any man will accept to marry you in the first place if you have similar problems?
Until I come your way again, please be ready to be a real help meet so that a man will find you suitable to be married. See you soon gorgeously married. Shalom
