In our society today, getting a man walk the aisle or altar with you to say “I do” is the utmost desire of most ladies. Many had tried all they knew, yet men seem not to be interested in marrying them, some get frustrated in the process.
Boldly, I wish to point out that the reason why some ladies not gotten a man say “I want to marry you” is because they don’t know what it really takes to get men of their choice to get interested in marrying them.
To get a man of your choice to want to marry you, you must necessarily pay some kind of prize because it is said that nothing good on earth comes free even in Freetown.
You pay a prize to get what you want as this is not free and the prize you pay are doing things that could get you attracted to men who may wish to marry you.
In the first place, you must have a desire of what kind of man you want as a husband. You should have the kind of men you desire to marry at the back of your mind.
Next you work on yourself and package yourself to ensure that such men find you befitting for them to have you as a wife”.
To have the kind of men you desire at the back of your mind, you do so by asking and answering to yourself this question, “Will this kind of man I desire to have as a husband, will the man equally desire and be willing to accept me the way I am now as their wife”?
You should realize that the reason, why some ladies are yet to get married, is because they are expecting much from the kind of person they desire to marry.
Yet they themselves are providing so little. The result is that the kind of men they desire don’t sees these ladies as fit or befitting for them for marriage.
The number one tip, therefore, is to “prove to a man that you are the best for him to have you as a wife”.
So you should strive to make yourself fit and befitting for the kind of a man you are desiring to have as a husband, for him to locate and stay with you until ” I do” is the final word.
As said earlier, some ladies behave awkwardly, they desire the best and finest of a man to marry them a wife yet they behave, dress like a foolish old village girl that man of such class don’t find them befitting or worthy to have them as a wife.
To be the best means that you need to pay the prize of working on yourself, you need to locate areas of your life that need improvement and work on them.
It may be your structure or shape, facial look, character or your dressing.
Believe me, there are areas of your life that need a total overhaul, others need a facelift while others may need just a minor touch to make you fit or befitting.
What I am saying, therefore, is that, before a man will look at you and leave thousand and one other ladies to say that he wants to marry you and mean it. You may have made a strong impression on that man that he feels convinced that you are marriageable and best for him.
Of a truth, once you complete working on yourself and are now fit for men to find you, the resultant effect will be that men will be struggling to be the one to get you for a wife.
You will discover that you will be the one to make the choice of who to marry among men seeking your hands in marriage.
Don’t try to push yourself on a man but rather do things and behave yourself to prove to him that you are the best for him among all the ladies he knew.
The number two tip is that you should “realize that marriage proposal is not yet marriage”: Some ladies, the costly mistake they make is that after they had made some little impression on a man and the man proposes marriage to them.
Instead of continuous working and improving themselves, they relax and start misbehaving by trying to push themselves on the man.
Some go to the extent of packing into the man’s house. Along the line, another lady makes a greater impression on the man, proving to the man without all reasonable doubt that she is better than you.
As a result, the man makes a u-turn about you and may eventually abandon you and go for the other lady.
Quite often, the lady who eventually takes over may be the lady’s best friend who she may have taken to the man’s house.
So as you start working on yourself and men start showing interest in you, this is not the time to relax or stop but a time to do more in improving yourself.
Remember the target is to prove to a man that you are the best for him among thousand of other ladies he knew..
To be continued, watch out for part two.
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