Once a lady reaches a certain age in life, she will begin to have fear and desperation about marriage. Recently while interacting with one of such lady in her early 30s, I could sense fear and desperation about marriage written all over her.
The lady in question looked at me eye ball to eye ball and asked me, my marital destiny, “Will I ever get married in this life”?
After she asked me the above question, she was looking at me for my answer. I was thrown off for a while and then shared with her a testimony of what happened in Canaan land Ota during the 2013 Shiloh at Winners Chapel International.
During that Shiloh of 2013, a woman shared a testimony of how she got married for the first time at the age of 54.I, therefore, told her that if that woman could marry at the age 54 that it is never too late for her to get married if GOD has destined her to get married.
All that is required of her is to change certain things about her person and her negative attitude. She should start to do certain things while she should as well stop doing certain things.
Apart our marital destiny, it takes knowing what it takes to get men interested and desirous of marrying you. You will agree with me that before a man will look at you and desire to marry you; he may have been convinced that you are the right woman for him.
What do I do I get men desire to marry me?
There are things you need do and things you should never do if you wish to get men to desire to marry you. If getting men desire to marry you is your utmost desire, then you should follow the following steps:
Firstly, you must ensure that there is no spirit husband blocking your way or preventing you from getting married to a physical man. This is the first suggestion I do give to ladies who desire marriage but no man was coming forth or who keep having constant disappointment in their relationships. And the only way to be sure of that is to do spiritual check up.
By spiritual check up I mean presenting yourself for deliverance to confirm that there is no spiritual husband. Of a truth, many people don’t believe in spirit husband, yet it is spirit husband that is behind or is what is preventing many ladies from getting married.
Secondly, you need to ensure or confirm that there is no curse or spell operating in your life and family. It is said, the spiritual world controls the physical world and most of the happening us physically had already taken place in the spiritually.
I wish to point out, curses and spell are real and many ladies are suffering under the weight of curses or spell. They can be a strong force fighting our marital destiny.
And as long as the curse or spell remains unbroken, the tendency is that no man will ever have the interest to marry you. The solution lies in presenting yourself for spiritual check up to confirm that you don’t have any curse or spell working against you.
The solution lies in presenting yourself for spiritual check up to confirm that you don’t have any curse or spell working against you.
Thirdly, you must necessarily work and fine tune your character. What many ladies fail to realise is that their character speaks louder than their beauty.
That is why you see many beautiful ladies who are still single because no man accepted to marry then. They are busy projecting their beauty rather than projecting their character.
In other words, you need to pay adequate attention to your character as to ensure that there is nothing repulsive about your character that is scaring men away from you.
Your beauty more or less should be an added advantage to your character. Even the BIBLE had this to say in Proverbs 11:22 “As a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, so is a fair woman who is without discretion”.
Again no matter your age, you should never show desperation about marriage. Once men confirm that you are desperate about marriage, they will cash into it defraud and dump you like a worthless rag.
Moreover, it is desperation that makes ladies do some folly and foolish things in an effort to be accepted.
Now that men have started showing interest in me, what do I do?
Now that men have started showing interest in you, you need to play your card very well to ensure that you don’t miss out, that you don’t scare away potential husbands who may wish to marry you. To this end, such men need to be convinced that you are a quality marriageable material.
Once a man that is interested in marriage comes close to you, the first thing he will begin to do is to assess the quality and totality of your person.
You should, therefore, try and build your personal worth by correctly packaging yourself. In other words, you need to correctly package yourself to prove that you are a quality marriage material and not a cheap article.
If you will do all these sincerely, you will end up sharing your own testimony this year 2015 like that woman that got married at the age of 54.
Remember, I am praying for you that you get married and move into your husband home. Join me to make it happen.
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