With a gloom on his face, one man made this exclamation, “my marriage was a mistake if I knew I won’t have married her”. From the look on his face, you don’t need a prophet to tell you that the man was not happy in his marriage.
A look at the situation of things about his marriage, the man was full of regret of the woman he married as a wife. The man wasn’t alone; there are many men in our society with a similar situation, men who are not happy because of the women they married as wives.
The truth of the matter is that when a man is not happy in his marriage, it literally shows in his mood and face. That man, even though he had not divorced or sent his wife away. However, it is obvious that they are not relating well to husband and wife. He complained that his wife was not appealing to him any longer.
In some of my earlier posts, I had warned women to be conscious and do everything possible to avoid losing their appeal before their husbands. Once a woman loses her $ex appeal before her husband, other negative consequences in her marriage will soon follow.
But what on earth could make a woman lose her $ex appeal before her husband, and what should be done to remedy the situation? For one thing, as a woman, you don’t lose your $ex appeal before your husband in one day, it is a gradual process and takes time before it happens.
I wish to say that most of the time, it starts by ignoring a particular area or issue in your life which your husband keeps complaining about time without a number.
If you are a woman and notice an issue or area your husband is complaining about you, don’t treat that issue with a wave of hands. You should know that he is not happy with you in that area. For instance, you are adding excess weight.
So, instead of ignoring him or his complaint, you should rather work on yourself to remove or improve on that area. If you ignore his complaint, the time will come when he will choose to ignore you as well, which, in the long run, results in not finding you appealing.
As said, an area some women easily lose their appeal before their husband is by allowing themselves to add excess weight and become overweight. One man with regret in his eyes was complaining that the woman he has in his house as a wife was a shapeless woman.
The man said that she look older than his mother, rather than an elegant woman he saw years ago and married as a wife. As a married woman, you should be conscious not to allow yourself to get overweight if you don’t want your husband to lose interest in you.
However, you should as well not allow yourself to be too slim so as not to appear as if your husband is not taking good care of you. The maintenance of your weight and your body structure is necessary, which should be one of the prizes you pay to sustain your marriage to ensure that your husband doesn’t lose interest in you.
Another area in that women easily loses their appeal before their husband is their cleanness or otherwise. As a woman, never be so lazy as to neglect to clean yourself and be clean all the time. It is noted that most women with body odor are those that fail to clean themselves very well and often.
Never go to bed at night without taking a good shower, especially if you are sharing a bed with your husband. Don’t allow your husband to see or judge you as being dirty. Some women have discharge, and it is noted that some discharge goes with an offensive odor.
If you have such a problem, don’t allow your husband to have an affair with you, especially at night without first of all going to clean your private with clean water. One man once complained that he had stopped making love to his wife because anytime he made love to her, the odor that resulted was so offensive that he used to run away from the bedroom to the sitting room.
So don’t be lazy as to neglect to clean your body all the time or else your husband may not find you appealing. Never do a thing that could cause your husband a regret ever marrying you.
Again, to avoid your husband having the regret of marrying you as a wife, you should be conscious of your wear (dressing). Make sure that you wear clothes that fit your body structure.
You should never take it because you want to wear the latest designer’s clothes that are reigning that will make you wear clothes that did not fit your body structure.
Your watchword is that you should dress to please your husband and not to please the public. Your husband should be your mirror, so any cloth he didn’t like, don’t wear it.
Moreover, mind the clothes you wear to bed at night and don’t be fond of dressing like an old grandma. Those who designed nightgowns, what do you think was at the back of their mind? Ensure that often you wear a good nightgown aimed at fuelling your appeal before your husband.
Above all, to avoid your husband losing interest in you, you should ensure that you treat your husband with respect. If you treat your husband with respect, you will see that he will ever adore you.
Remember, all these are to ensure that you don’t lose your $ex appeal before your husband. Ensure that your husband is happy all the time, and you are the master key that will unlock that happiness in him.
Of a truth, if your husband is happy with you all the time, you will see that you will enjoy him and your marriage to the fullness all the time. Until I come your way again, stay committed at pleasing your husband so as to enjoy your marriage. Shalom.