In this life and in our society today, some couples are enjoying their marriages to the fullest while the marriages of some couples are dragging or in crises and at the point of breakdown. Other couples, their own marriages have totally collapsed or have ended in divorce.
The state of each marriage is determined by the attitude of the couples involved in such marriages and as well as the relevant working knowledge they have about it takes to run a happy and exciting marriage and as well as the prize they are ready and willing to enjoy their marriage.
Of a truth, the problem with many couples is that they lack the relevant working knowledge of what it takes to enjoy a harmonious and exciting marriage. As a result, some are doing what they ought not to do in their marriage while some had neglected to do what are expected of them in their marriages.
If it is your desire to enjoy your marriage to the fullest, then join me as we look at the recipe for enjoying a harmonious and exciting marriage. The recipe number one is that couples should place a higher value on their spouse.
Of a truth, the way you relate to your spouse is determined by the way you value him or her. Couples who placed a very high value on each other will never have the mind to do anything to offend or hurt each other.
For instance, men who placed a high value on their wives will always see to it that their wives are happy and will never imagine raising up their fists to beat their wives. Also women who places high value on their husbands will ensure at all time that they do what makes their husband happy. Such will never imagine opening their mouth to abuse their husbands.
The second recipe is that couples should never be found comparing their husbands or their wives with other men or women in town. Couples should know that once they start comparing their husbands or wives with other men and women in town, the love for each will surely drop to the lowest ebb.
It is said that love is in the eyes of the beholder, so learn to accept and see your husband or wife as the best among equal. Of a truth, if I am to make a choice of who to marry all over again, I will still choose my wife. What about you?
For instance, a man once abandoned his wife and married a new wife he taught was better, but within two years, the new wife showed him pepper that he ran and brought back his first wife and send packing the second wife. Please you should see your husband or wife as the best among men and among women.
The number three recipe is that couples should consciously resolve to sink or swim with each other. The reason why some marriages failed is that some couples have reservations and did not put in their best into their marriages.
Please this is obvious, couples who really wish to enjoy their marriage to the fullest, they need to put in their best to ensure the success of their marriage without reservation or holding anything back anything.
The recipe number four is that couples should ensure that they have a harmonious $exual adjustment. The problem with some couples that led to crash of their marriage is $exual maladjustment.
Whenever there is $exual maladjustment, the issues of $ex always bring crises among them. As such, men in such marriages often time complain of $exual starvation or $ex denial. Also men in such marriages literally rape their wives by insisting on having their way sexually even when their wives are not in the mood for $ex.
When it comes to the issue of $ex, couples should realize that it takes two to tangle. In other words, as a man mistreat or look down on your wife during the day and expect her to relax for you for $ex in the night.
For instance, some time ago, I visited an office and met one man who was aggressive and antagonizing every female staff. As a marriage counselor I perceived that he was having a transferred aggression as a result of problems with his wife.
On interaction with him, I found out that his wife had denied him $ex that night. I sat the man down and schooled him on $exual matters. That day, I equally invited his wife to my office and schooled her too.
The end point was that the man went home that evening after work with ordinary flower which he gave the wife apologizing to her for quarreling with her the previous night. He as well took her out that night where they had time together.
When they came back home that night, the man went and took his bath first. The woman after taking her own bath latter came to the living room stark naked. She asked the man if he is still interested in having $ex that she was available for him.
According to the man, that was the first time ever since they married that the woman initiated $ex. That night, they had the best $exual relationship ever. According to the woman, that night was the first time she had orgasm while having $ex with her husband.
The following day, the husband transferred a huge amount of money to her account and asked her to use it and go for shopping. It was some days later that I found out that it was my pep talk with them that did the magic. The two visited my house together to thank me for my counseling.
For emphasize, all I did was that I made them to realize that it takes two to tangle when it comes to $exual relationship among couples. As a woman therefore what is your gain by denying you husband $exual satisfaction?
Also as a man have you done what is expected of you to make the woman happy as to relax for you to enjoy $ex with her? As a man, don’t be selfish, ensure that you do everything to make you wife always to climax during $ex and you will never again beg her for $ex as she will ever be ready for you since she will equally enjoy it.