In our society all over the world today, you will observe that many marriages are collapsing with some of them ending in divorce.
When you take a closer look at the causes of failures of some of these marriages, one will observe that many of the causes are the result of issues relating to $ex in such marriages.
Couples who really wish to enjoy a successful and exciting marriage should try to avoid allowing the issue of $ex to destroy their marriage. As said, the issue relating to $ex is what had crashed and is still crashing many marriages. In other words, a well-known marriage destroyer couples should try to avoid is denying each other $exual satisfaction.
Particularly, as a woman, no matter what your husband does to you or did not do for you, you should never deny him $exual pleasure or satisfaction as a punishment. Moreover, as a woman, you may not know the harm you are doing to yourself and marriage if you are fond of denying your husband $exual pleasures.
This is because denying your husband $exual satisfaction creates a chain reaction, and that chain reaction will eventually boomerang or bounce back on you. For instance, there was this couple I knew, one day I went to see the couple one early morning and meet the wife of the man abusing her husband, calling him all sorts of names.
On inquiry, the woman told me that she cut her husband red-handed making love to her house help the previous night. The man did not deny the allegation but blamed his wife for his action.
According to the man, he said that that faithful night, he had a tremendous $exual urge, but his wife vehemently refused to submit to him to make love to her. He said that he spent over half an hour pleading with her, but she refused for no just cause. When he got fed up appealing to her, he went to ease himself.
Incidentally, the room where the house help was sleeping was near the toilet, and he said he didn’t know when he went into her room. The above incident is one of the things that happens when a man has $exual urge or desire but his wife deliberately refuses him $ex.
There is no doubt about it; there are men who were forced into extramarital affairs simply because their wives deliberately and continued to deny them $exual satisfaction a number of times.
So, if you are fond of denying your husband $exual satisfaction, he may be tempted to look for satisfaction outside your matrimonial home, and there are a thousand and one women out there ready to welcome and satisfy him.
The more he goes outside your matrimonial home for $exual satisfaction, the more his heart goes out with him. A time will come when his love for you will get soured, and he may no longer pay attention to you. You know what happens when love among a couple gets soured.
Moreover, there are men who end up marrying two wives as a result, this is because as he continues to go outside their matrimonial home, time will come when he will eventually fell inb love with another woman.
One of the other women he normally goes out to see may get pregnant, and the man may decide or forced to marry her as the second wife. Do you see the chain reaction?
Another resultant effect of denying your husband $ex is that he may be tempted to visit $ex workers and may end up catching STD or another deadly disease which he may eventually transmit to you.
I do warn married women not to do anything that could result in their husband going out, how much more denying them $ex. If I were you, I will do everything possible to satisfy my husband $exually and not do anything that could tempt him to commit extramarital affairs.
However, the issue of denial of $ex is from both sides. So husband never you deny your wife $ex for no just cause. Doing so may tempt her to seek satisfaction outside your matrimonial home.
The resultant effects of the woman going out are similar to the man going out for $exual satisfaction. Finally, GOD provided $ex for the enjoyment of couples, they should therefore not allow what GOD provided for their marriage enjoyment to destroy their marriage’. Shalom!
