In our society, the issue of $ex disharmony is often what brings about crises in marriage relationships and had equally crashed some marriages. Couples who wish to enjoy their marriage to the fullest should ensure that they have a harmonious $exual adjustment in their marriage.
The problem with some couples is that they allow $exual maladjustment to crash their marriage. Often, whenever there is $exual maladjustment disharmony in any marriage, that will surely lead to their love getting sour which may eventually crash such marriage.
As such, men in such marriages, often complain of $exual starvation or $ex denial. Also, some men in such marriages literally rape their wives by insisting on having their way $exually even when their wives were not in the mood for $ex thereby forcing their wives.
However, when it comes to the issue of $exual harmony in marriage, couples should realize that it takes two to tangle. That is, it takes both husband and wife to exhibit mutual love and understanding among themselves for them to enjoy $exual harmony in their marriage.
For instance, some time ago, I visited one man in his office and met the man being aggressive and was antagonizing every female staff in his office. As a marriage counselor, I perceived that he was exhibiting transferred aggression, which may have resulted from a problem with his wife.
My interaction with the man proved me right, as I found out that his wife denied him $ex that early morning. I decided to sit the man down and schooled him on how to achieve $exual harmony in his marriage.
That day, I equally phoned his wife since I knew her very well and invited her to my office. She honored my invitation, and I equally schooled her on $exual harmony in her marriage
The end result of my pep talk with them was that the man went home that evening after work with an ordinary flower in his hand which he gave to his wife apologizing to her for quarreling with her early morning that day. The wife equally apologized for denying him sex.
That evening, for the first time, the man decided to take her out to a nearby joint where they had time together, just with plates of pepper soup and drink. That night, after they came back, the man went and took his shower first and was in the living room watching Television. The wife, after taking her own shower, later came to the living room stark naked.
She was the person who asked her husband if he was still interested in having $ex, that she was available and ready for him. According to the man, that was the first time ever since they got married that his wife initiated $ex herself just to satisfy him.
The couple confirmed that their $exual relationship that night was the best ever since they got married. Also, according to the woman, that night $ex was the first time ever she had an orgasm while having $ex with her husband.
The following day, the husband in addition transferred some amount of money to her account, asking her to use the money for shopping. It was some days after that, that the said couple confirmed to me that it was my pep talk with them that did the magic.
For emphasis, all I did was make the two of them realize that it takes two to tangle when it comes to creating $exual harmony in marriage. Telling them they need to avoid $exual maladjustment in their marriage.
That is, I told the man that if he shows unconditional love to his wife and as well as takes care of her emotional need, he will never beg his wife for $ex again as his wife will always be available and ready for $ex.
Furthermore, I told him that he should learn how to satisfy his wife $exually always. That is really the problem with some men, they jump on top of their wives during $exual relationship and while their wives are still warming up, they score a goal and come down.
Meaning that as a man, you should ensure that you do what is expected of you towards your wife to make her happy as to relax for you to enjoy $ex with her? I am bold to say that some men are so selfish when it comes to the issue of $ex.
Often, they are only concerned with satisfying themselves, without bothering about whether their wives are satisfied or not. If as a man you always satisfy your wife $exually, that is, your wife always reaches an orgasm, you will observe that she will never deny you $ex as she is sure to enjoy it herself.
You will equally observe that she will from time to time be the person to initiate $ex herself. To this end, as a man, you should therefore ensure that you are not selfish. You should ensure that you do everything to make your wife have an orgasm during $ex.
Fellow men, as said, if you will ensure that your wife reaches orgasm during $ex, you will observe that you will never again beg her for $ex as she will always be ready for you.
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Until I come your way again, stay committed to your marriage. Shalom!.
