I was listening to one of Bishop David Oyedepo’s messages and in that message, Bishop Oyedepo was talking about one of the reasons why some people fail or get frustrated in life.
According to Oyedepo, one of the reasons is that they are performing the same ordinary issue the same way all the time and yet expecting to get different results. He emphasized that to get extra results, one must perform extraordinary issues.
In the same vein, some people are performing the same ordinary things in their marriage and no wonder they were getting the same dull ordinary results. But it not ought to be so, you can consciously launch your marriage from ordinary to extraordinary marriage if you wish to.
As Bishop Oyedepo said in that message, emphasizing the fact of what to achieve an extraordinary result. According to him, all we need to do is to consciously add extra things to the ordinary things we used to do, thereby turning the ordinary into extraordinary.
We need to be committed to our marriage and spouse if we wish to achieve or enjoy an extraordinary marriage. All that is required of us is to consciously add extra to the ordinary things we have been doing in our marriages.
We must be committed to our marriage and spouse, and as a woman whose husband had been complaining about your cooking. What prevents you from putting extra effort to attend a catering school; you will observe that you will start to cook more appetizing foods to the admiration of your husband and family.
Moreover, I observe that on many occasions when I suspend whatever I am doing on my computer to keep my wife company in the kitchen, she does like it. So as a man, what prevents you from doing the same, putting extra effort to keep your wife company in the kitchen? What about helping to wash dishes, do you think doing so is above you?.
Also, as a man who has not been expressing your love to your wife, what prevents you from buying or picking some flowers on your way home from work to give to your wife, telling her that you love her.
Furthermore, for a woman, whose husband always begs before she satisfies him $exually, what prevents her from showering in the night and get ready for him even before he asks or makes a demand for it? I mean letting him know that you are ready for him if he desires to satisfy himself $exually.
Couples who have been taking their shower or bath differently, what prevents them from deciding today to take their bath together? Remember, we are talking about extra things you can use to launch your marriage to an extraordinary marriage.
There are many other extra things you can do that you have not been doing before or things which, although you have been doing, you need to do in different ways. However, it will take your genuine commitment to each other and to your marriage.
Finally, when last did you take your wife out for a date since you got married? You will remember that your wife enjoyed going out for a date before you married her, so why do you stop after your marriage?
If you will from today create time to take her out on a date, you will see the effect on your marriage. Until I come your way again, be committed to your spouse and marriage, and you will see that you will launch your marriage to a greater height or extraordinary marriage. Shalom!.