In our society today, while as it is the utmost heart’s desire of average couples to have fun and excitement in their marriage yet in reality the opposite is the case as many couples are enduring their marriages.
While as some couples are enjoying their marriages to the fullest, having fun and excitement in their marriages. For other couples, their marriages are nothing to write home about as they are like Tom and Jerry in their marriages. The marriages of some others have crashed or at the verge of collapse.
I wish to ask you, how is your own marriage fair as, of today since you got married? Will your spouse confirm that he/she is happy that he or she married you or is he or she regretting ever getting married to you?.
With due respect, I wish to assure you that no matter the situation of your marriage, it can be turned around as to start having fun and excitement in that marriage. All that is required of both of you is the knowledge and understanding of what to do to make it happen.
In other words, no matter the current state of your marriage, both of you hold the key that can activate fun and excitements in your own marriage and ensure that it is blossoming if both of you will diligently implement the following.
The one thing I wish that you know is that most of the time, it is your actions that are responsible for the actions of your spouse.
In other words, one major thing to ensure that your marriage is blossoming is that both couples should strive or ensure that their actions are intended to make their spouse happy and fulfilled.
This is a pure fact, It is the happiness of your spouse that makes for your own happiness. You can never be happy if your spouse is not happy.
For instance, there was a man I know, one day I visited his office and observed that he wasn’t happy that morning. On inquiry, I came to know that he quarrelled with his wife that morning.
I further came to realize that the cause of the quarrel was because his wife denied him sex early morning when he desired it. I therefore sat with the man and explained to him that the action of his wife was as a result of his own action.
On my advice, the man went home that evening and called the wife and apologized to her for quarrelling with her early morning that day. He promised to make it up by taking her out that evening.
As said, that night, he took her to a nearby joint where he bought pepper soup and drink which they ate and drank together. That simple incident, the wife was so happy that in the night it was the wife who reminded him that she was ready for him if he still wants to have sex.
According to the man, he said that he enjoyed the $ex action that night more than he ever used to do since he got married. He further said that his wife was screaming during the action as she equally enjoyed the $ex as she had orgasm multiple times.
Talking about $ex, one singular reason that some women deny $ex to their husband, is because such women seldom enjoy $ex with their husbands.
Some of such women, having $ex with their husbands are punishment. No wonder some go outside to men who know how to satisfy them sexually.
As a man, learn how to rock your wife on bed and you will observe that she will ever be ready for you for $ex since she will equally enjoy it.
The man in our example, on my advice, the man took his wife for shopping the next day in which he bought so many items for her and since then, that was the last time he ever had to beg his wife for $ex as the wife always get ready for him on demand.
What about you, does your own wife deny you sex? The reasons may be that you are not satisfying her sexually or that you are not taking good care of her needs.-
The end of part one, we will continue our discourse, in part two so keep a date with us.