How is your marriage relationship? The truth is that some marriages are so boring and some are engulfed in crises while some couples are enjoying their marriages to the fullness, enjoying an exciting marriage.
What is the state of your own marriage? Even if your marriage is in shambles, even if you are contemplating a divorce, please hold on, you can turn around that marriage for the better.
In this article, we shall be discussing simple steps to safeguard and turn your marriage around. The number one and foremost step is to correct, if not change, the mindset and the wrong impression you have about your spouse.
Take, for instance, one Pastor Chidiebere Makua of Winners chapel in one of his messages some time ago shared how one woman came to him crying that she want to leave her husband and that her husband was a monster.
According to the pastor, after his counseling session with the woman in which he instructed her on what she should start doing with her relationship with her husband and what she should stop doing.
Do you know that after some months, the same woman came to the pastor, and this time she said, “I never know that my husband was such a loving and caring husband”?
What do you think happened to the woman and her husband? It is obvious when the woman changed her wrong mindset, wrong attitude, and the wrong impression about her husband, her relationship with her husband totally changed.
What this implies is that you must necessarily change the wrong mindset you have about your husband/wife. One of the wrong mindsets, some couples have been, is to have the impression that their marriage to that man/woman was a mistake.
They have the wrong mindset that they married the wrong man or woman. You must never see you. Another simple step couples can use to safeguard their marriage and turn it around is by changing their mindset and attitude concerning the $exual relationship.
Can you say that as of today that you have a harmonious $exual adjustment with each other? This is obvious, the issue of $exual maladjustment has crashed some marriages and is still crashing some marriages.
When it comes to the issue of $ex, some men are so selfish and some see their wives as only a sex symbol that is meant to satisfy them $exually. As a man, does your wife get satisfied during the $exual relationship?
If we change our attitude and from today strive to ensure that our wives get satisfied $exually by making them reach orgasm while having $exual relationship with them, men will surely see that their marriages will have a turnaround.
On the other way round, as a woman, you equally need to change your attitude as well. In some women, their husband has to beg them for hours before they satisfy them $exually.
As a woman, if you will from today decide to ensure that you will never starve or deny your husband $exual satisfaction again. If you will be willing and ready to satisfy your husband $exually all the time, you will surely see the effect in your marriage relationship.
One other simple step to safeguard your marriage is to create and spend quality time with your spouse. It is also very obvious that one thing that is lacking in some homes is intimacy.
Men are generally guilty of not spending quality time with their wives because they claim that they are so busy with their work. As a man, the values you place on building intimacy with your wife determine the time you allot to it. Until I come your way again, stay committed to your marriage and spouse. Shalom!
