In our society today, many ladies who ought to be happily married are still going about still single because they don’t know what to do to get men interested in marrying them or that they lack the basic thing that men are looking for in ladies they want to marry.
As I said in some of my other posts, as a lady, before a man will say I want to marry you, he must have been convinced that you are the best for him, that is that you are the right person for him.
The fact remains, some men, after their marriage, they start to regret that they made a mistake of the lady they married. Will a man regret marrying you for a wife?
In this post, we shall be looking at qualities that secure the marital destiny of ladies. In other words, what men are really looking for in ladies they want to marry? As a lady, if you fail to meet up with what men are looking for in ladies they wish to marry, no man will want to marry you.
This is a proven fact; there are basic Qualities that men look for in Ladies they want to marry, that is there are reasons men may want to marry ladies.
1. The first reason is their character
2. The secondly is their beauty
3. Thirdly is their spirituality
4. The fourth reason is ladies who are so wonderful in bed.
5. The next important reason is ladies who had made it and risen to the limelight.
6. Also, ladies who are a wonderful cook, men want to marry them.
The character of a lady: Character is the greatest virtue ladies who want to get men to marry them should possess. Ladies who lack character, no matter how wonderful other qualities they possess, men seem to overlook other issues and may never want to marry them.
In other words, it is a character that men who wish to marry and enjoy a sustained marriage are looking for firstly in ladies they want to marry. Do you possess character?
The Beauty of a lady: There are ladies who lack character but are compensated by their beauty and there are men who are not bothered about the other virtues of ladies except their beauty.
What the above means is that there are ladies who men marry solely because of their beauty. However, such ladies, the only thing that holds their marriage is their beauty and any time their beauty fades away, they will be abandoned by their husbands.
There are also ladies who may lack in beauty but are highly spiritual and prayerful. Such ladies, spiritual men like men of God go for them for marriage. The only thing is that such ladies must pay the prize to keep up with their spirituality because if they should lose that, their husbands will not need them any longer.
This is a fact, there are men who are $ex machine and they tend to go for ladies who are wonderful in bed and who fully satisfies them $exually. However, the problem with such ladies is that their marriages do not last as their husbands soon abandon them for younger ladies.
Also, there are ladies who are successful as they had made it in their careers such as actresses and celebrities. Because they had risen, some men will like to marry them as to use them to rise as well.
However, most a times, such marriages do not last because such men, when they rise tend to abandon them for other ladies who they truly love unless such ladies possess other virtues that can sustain their marriages.
In addition, there are ladies whose mothers are wonderful cooks and such they inherited good cooking from their mothers. Such ladies, men when they taste the food they prepared, they tend to go for them for marriage.
As a lady, if you don’t possess any of these basic virtues or qualities, God have mercy; it will be hard for men to want to marry you. Men must see any of these virtues or qualities they are looking for in you before they can come for you for marriage.
My lady, of all the virtues or qualities mentioned above, how many of them do you possess? Ladies, you should know something, men are looking for some virtues in the life of ladies they want to marry. Once they see such virtues or qualities in you, they will surely come for you for marriage.
It is obvious, as said, ladies who lack all these virtues or qualities, God have mercy it will be hard for men to want them for marriage. So ask yourself if you possess any of the above qualities if you are expecting to attract men for marriage.
Moreover, men must prove that you will be submissive before they come for you for marriage. In other words, even if you possess all the other qualities, if men prove that you will not be submissive, they run away from you.
I know a lady, her income is more than five times that of her husband yet you would never know because of the way she submits to her husband and they are enjoying their marriage to the fullness.
In summary, even if you possess most of the qualities mentioned above, you should fine-tune your character because it is the first thing men are looking for in ladies while other virtues or qualities are secondary.
