In our society today, we all entered marriage with the hope and desire of enjoying sweet and glorious marriage. However, a look at the marriage of some couples, you don’t need a prophet to tell you that they are having the best of time in their marriages, they are enjoying sweet and glorious marriages.
But for other couples, the issue of enjoying sweet and glorious marriages seems to them a mirage as they are having troubles in their marriages.
From the look of things, many are not enjoying sweet and glorious marriage simply because they are ignorant of what to do to enjoy their marriages.
Others are doing what they ought not to do in their marriage while failing to do what they supposed to do in their marriage. Authoritatively I wish to point out that it is possible “you too can move on and start enjoying sweet and glorious marriage”.
As said, those who are enjoying sweet and glorious marriages knew and have applied the secrets that make for successful and glorious marriages. While as other couples are ignorant of what it takes to enjoy sweet and glorious marriages.
As said earlier, it is obvious, the reason why some are not enjoying sweet and glorious marriage is that they don’t know the secrets of what it takes to enjoy sweet glorious marriage and are not willing to learn.
For such couples, their major problem is that they claim or assume knowing the secrets while as they don’t know.
Yes, this is a fact, many are a huge success in other areas or fields of their life endeavors but are a woeful failure in their home and marriages. Some couples whose marriages had failed, they trade blame on each other of being the reason or cause of their marriage failure.
However, no matter the state or situation of your marriage currently, I wish to authoritatively point out that you can turn your marriage around and move to enjoy sweet and glorious marriage if you so desire.
All that it takes is to follow the secrets and principles that make for sweet and glorious marriage.
In other to enjoy sweet and glorious marriage, the foremost thing is for couples to resolve within themselves to sink or swim with their partners. It is that resolve that propels couples to be committed to their marriage and each other. To what extent are you committed to each other and your marriage?
For couples to be committed to each other and their marriages, they must deal ruthlessly with selfishness. It is selfishness that causes the failure of most marriages. When you hear couples cite irreconcilable differences as the cause of their marriage failures, it is selfishness that is at the center of their problem.
Secondly, couples who wish to enjoy a sweet and glorious marriage; they must obey God’s laws as contained in the Bible above man-made laws. This is coming in the wake of many nations bringing outlaws saying that adultery is legal while as God said in Exodus 20: 14 Thou shalt not commit adultery.
For any marriage to survive, infidelity must be ruled out as infidelity is the known cause of the failures of most marriages. God says that adultery (infidelity) is illegal in marriage while our societies are legalizing adultery (infidelity) in marriage.
Moreover, couples who wish to enjoy sweet and glorious marriage, they must abide by God’s principles of marriage as contained in Genesis 2: 24-25 “therefore, shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh”. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
You have probably heard the above many times but are you sure it is a reality in your marriage? Have you left your father and mother and have you cleaved to your wife. It is only when couples have cleaved together that they can become one flesh.
Becoming one flesh should be the ultimate desire of couples who wish to enjoy a sweet and glorious marriage. Couples who are contemplating divorce have never cleaved to each other and are never one flesh.
Now that you are married, don’t assume that you made a mistake in the choice of whom you married. You may not have made a mistake of the man or woman you married; all you need to do is cleave to each other and get adjusted to each other as your problems may have resulted from maladjustment
In other words, the problem with many couples may be that they have not adjusted adequately to each other (couples are not adequately adjusted to each other).
This is exactly the problem with some couples – “they had maladjustment” they are not enjoying sweet and glorious marriages because they had maladjustment.
This is because marriage is a union between two opposite s-x, who have different temperaments and coming from different backgrounds. To enjoy each other in their marriage, it is pertinent that they are successfully adjusted to each other.
Successful adjustment to each other means that couples understand each other’s temperaments, understand each other’s likes and dislikes, as well as love and trust each other.
Couples should cherish each other very well and should be the best of friends. Their $ex life as well is marvelous because each knows when any of them desire s-x and are willing and are ready to satisfy each other at any moment.
You can’t claim to be enjoying sweet marriage when you are struggling and quarreling over the issue of $ex in your marriage. Some couples are engaged in extra-marital affairs, in other words, infidelity.
TO BE CONTINUED…………..WATCH OUT FOR PART TWO.