In part one; we started our discourse on the issue of infidelity in marriage. We started by looking at some ways men are responsible for the infidelity of their wives. GO HERE to read part one if you have not read it for a better understanding.
Men Who Abandon Their Responsibility To Care And Maintain Their Wives: just like the issue in the first point mentioned in part one, there are men who abandoned their responsibility of taking good care of maintaining their wives.
Of a truth, there are men who don’t bother to care or look at their wives. Such men, they forget that women need maintenance and most a time, they do fall to other men that provide them resources to maintain themselves.
Next Are Men Who Don’t Care To Spend Enough Quality Time To Relate And Build Intimacy With Their Wives: there are also men who claim that they are so busy that they have no time to spend as to relate and build intimacy with their wives.
As a result, of not having intimacy with their wives, their wives are so lonely and suffer in silence.
Since such women are abandoned by their husbands and are so lonely and not cared for in their marriage. As a result of denying them the intimacy and companionship these women desire and seek for from their husbands, some other men cash in to fill that vacuum created.
The truth of the matter is that such women easily fall prey to the antics of other men who capitalize in such situation by providing them the affection, intimacy, and companionship such women needed.
As such, with time, such women don’t know when they fall in love with such men who offered them care, intimacy and companionship, and are sooner than later, they get sexually involved with such men.
To this end, as a man, you should be very careful as not to deny your wife care, intimacy and companionship as not to allow emotional vacuum to be created. This is because women are more vulnerable and full into men that show them affection and intimacy that touch their emotions.
We Have Also Men Who Are Unable To Perform In Bed To Satisfy Their Wives Sexually: lastly, there are men who have the inability to satisfy the sexual needs of their wives on the bed.
Such women whose husbands cannot satisfy them sexually on the bed, they are forced to seek for sexual satisfaction outside with other men. As a man, you should pray that you should never put your wife in such a situation.
For instance, I know of a woman, according to that woman, she lamented that since over five years she got married to her husband; her husband had never satisfied her sexually for once which made her to seek for satisfaction outside her matrimonial home.
In other words, it was that situation that forced her to get sexually involved with another man. According to her, the other man she was involved sexually always makes her to come multiple time any time they have sex.
Of a truth, most men are guilty of the above. They can’t perform in bed and some are so selfish that they don’t bother to find out whether their wives are being satisfied as well. All they are after is that they jump on top of the woman, get satisfied and jump down.
Please, as a man, rather than pushing your wife to seek for sexual satisfaction with another man, do everything possible to ensure that she is sexually satisfied by you. If you don’t know what to do, seek for counseling.
End of part two, in part three of the discourse, we shall be looking at more of the ways men are responsible for the infidelity of their wives. GO HERE to read it.
