This is the third part of the above series. In part two, we looked at more of the ways some men force their wives to fall for other men in infidelity.
In this discourse, we shall continue by looking into some ways that women are responsible for the infidelity of their husbands. GO HERE to read part two if you have not read it.
WAYS THAT WOMEN ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE INFIDELITY OF THEIR HUSBANDS:
Sex denial or starvation of their husbands: of a truth, the greatest way women cause their husbands to engage in infidelity is sex denial or starvation.
There are women who are fond of starving or denying sexual satisfaction to their husbands. As a result, some men are pushed to seek for sexual satisfaction outside their matrimonial homes.
So, if you are a woman and guilty of denying or starving your husband of sex, if he happens to get sexually involved with other women, you are to be blamed as you are responsible for that.
In other words, there are women who cry that their husbands are engaged in infidelity while as they are responsible as most a time, their husbands have to beg them before they are satisfied sexually.
So as a woman, if you don’t want to see your husband get involved with other women, then you should as a matter of necessity, ensure that you satisfy him sexually all the time without any condition attached.
Loss Of Sex Appeal By Some Women: there are men who lamented that what pushed them outside was that they no longer have a sexual interest towards their wives.
In other words, there are women who have lost their sex appeal before their husbands. It is such women that their husbands no longer have desires to have a sexual relationship with them.
These men involved, they derive pleasure and prefer meeting other women for sexual satisfaction. So, as a married woman, you should do everything possible not to put your husband in such a situation.
From my years of counseling, I have come to realize that the following are responsible for women losing their sex appeal before their husband. Among them, vaginal discharge that causes an offensive odor come first.
Also, there are women with offensive body odor. For instance, I know of a man, he said that the body odor of his wife was the singular thing that forced him to engage in infidelity.
I also know of a woman who came to me with the problem that for the past six months that her husband had not had sex with her. I did not need a prophet to tell me the reason, because the odor I perceived when the woman entered my office was so offensive.
I counseled her on what to do, which is taking bath many times as well as well cleaning of her privacy. Even if she is not taking her bath, she will clean her privacy very well.
As a result of my counseling, she programmed herself that between 4:00 and 4:30 am she will go and bath and cleans herself.
Within two days she did that, her husband started to desire her again as the offensive odor vanished. So as a woman, ensure that you are not responsible for scaring your husband away sexually as a result of offensive odor. In other words, you should ensure that you tidy yourself at all time
Moreover, one of the reasons why I counsel couples not to rush to divorce their partner over the issue of infidelity is because there are men and women who get involved with other men or women, not with their normal senses.
That is to say, there are men or women who are manipulated to do what they may not have imagined doing under normal situations. For instance, there was a woman, a man drugged her and had affairs with her.
What about women who use of on conventional means such as spells, enchantments, and charms to get men to sleep with them? I wish that you realize that another man or woman could use unconventional means to manipulate your husband or wife into committing extramarital affairs. Any man or woman could be involved, meaning that it could happen to you.
When you talk about infidelity in marriage, men are mostly guilty, but a woman who is conscious would never allow another woman to snatch her husband from her over the issue of infidelity as there are women who seduce other men to have affairs with them.
I am saying this because I have witnessed this happen a number of times. The marriage of a woman was rescued recently by one pastor.
According to the information, the woman came to the pastor to inform him that she was leaving her husband, that he was having extra-marital affairs with another woman even in their matrimonial bed.
The end of the above story was that it was another woman who was using unconventional means to control and manipulate the woman’s husband.
After the prayer of deliverance for the man, he came to his senses and confessed that he couldn’t imagine to have descended so low as to have extramarital affairs in his matrimonial home.
For instance, would you imagine that this story is true? “A woman caught her twin sister red handed with her husband naked in an underground park”? See https://closeronline.co.uk/real-life/news/woman-catches-husband-sex-twin-sister-leaves-naked-carpark/
You should realize that when another woman is after your husband, she can go to any length to achieve her aim. But the question is, will you allow it to happen to your husband? If you happen to catch your husband read handed with another woman, what will you do?
Until I come your way again, stay committed to your marriage and you should never allow infidelity to crash your marriage. Shalom