Making the right choice of the right woman to marry is one of the uphill tasks of some young men. Some men regret their choice of the woman they married, claiming that they made the wrong choice of who they married.
As a result, some end up enduring their marriage instead of enjoying their marriage while some marriages end up crashing, some end in divorce all because they claimed they made a mistake in the choice of who they married.
It is an obvious fact, the choice of the person you marry is the determinant of whether your marriage will succeed or fail. That is why it is necessary that you be very careful in making the choice so that you don’t make the wrong choice.
The following are therefore the Factors that influence the choice of a man of who to marry: in making the choice of a lady to marry, the character of a lady and the beauty of a lady come top.
There is an argument as to which of the two rank first. Some consider the character of a lady first while others consider the beauty of a lady first.
For the fact that the beauty of a lady may fade away or change, but the character does not fade away, I, therefore, consider the character of a lady as the number one in rank.
The character of a lady: The character of a lady comes topmost or is the number one in the rank of the qualities lady men do consider in making the right choice of a woman to marry.
You should, therefore, consider the character of a lady seriously before you choose her as your wife if you want to enjoy peace and success in your marriage.
It is an obvious fact that there are men who died before their time simply because they married what the Bible called a contentious woman.
See Proverbs 21:9 “Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman”.
The second that follows suit is the beauty of a lady: It is said that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, therefore you should choose a lady you consider beautiful in your eyes, a lady you should be proud of, a lady you should be bold to introduce to friends as your wife.
One of the reason I counsel marrying a lady you should be proud of is that if you happen to marry a person you are not proud of, the tendency is that in future you start comparing her with other elegant ladies in town.
The next thing that some men do consider about women they want to choose as a wife is a woman who is an asset and not a bundle of liability. There are women you marry as a wife; her level of contribution in your marriage will be so noticeable.
However, there are other ladies, because they are nothing but liabilities if you happen to marry such lady, before long your business will totally collapse.
When you marry a liability because she has no contribution to add to your person and business but expenses, before long, whatsoever you are doing will continue to dwindle and will totally collapse.
The third is a woman who knows how to cook: My lady, do you know how to cook? It is said that one of the gateways to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
As such, most men prefer to marry ladies who know how to cook delicacies compared to ladies who don’t know how to cook at all.
Finally, a woman who will make her husband happy and fulfilled always. There is a woman you get married to, the woman will so make you happy and fulfilled always.
Even the Bible puts it this way, in Proverbs 19:14 “Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from the LORD”.
Also in proverbs chapter 12 verse 4 “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones”.
Most men, therefore, prefer to marry prudent women, who will always cause men to be happy and fulfilled.
Once a man confirms that you are an excellent woman, a woman who is prudent, he will rush to seek for your hands in marriage. If you are a lady desiring to marry, fine tune your character and strive to be prudent and excellent.
You will surely see men rush to marry you especially if you fulfill or meet up with the above qualities.
Until I come your way again, try to meet up with the kind of women men do prefer to have as a wife. Read also the kind of a man I will like to have as a husband. Shalom.
